is it possible to meet a bf through church? ive decided to start going (for personal and religious reasons the most), but i dont know how and if id even find a guy at church
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is it possible to meet a bf through church? ive decided to start going (for personal and religious reasons the most), but i dont know how and if id even find a guy at church
are you a biologicals woman? If so, then yes.
yes i am... but how would i do it?
how do you get a boyfriend
>yes i am... but how would i do it?
>how do you get a boyfriend
If you aren't hideous just exist and be friendly.
join a small group for singles in your age range. Honestly met my wife in kindergarten, but we started dating after connecting in a small group. She's a trad wife, i provide for our family. 1 kid so far and more on the way soon hopefully. 10/10 would recommend
being socially active... small groups... im taking notes. ^__^ i also dont have any friends and i dont know how id strike up a conversation in a friend-seeking way either. thank you so much for the advice !
You are a qtpie. You will have no issues finding a bf
>met my wife in kindergarten
Damn, do they still let you around children after that one?
Assuming you've found a guy you like, just be friendly and treat him like a friend or someone you want to be friends with. You don't have to do any complicated flirting techniques with men. If they like you, just simple friendly conversation will win them over. Also, because you're meeting men in a conservative place, I'd wait for a man to ask you out since that's traditional.
Another note, I'd make yourself active in your church, like going to any bible studies or volunteering for events. Being active and social is the key.
yes
go to weekly masses, listening to announcements or check the church bulletin. Volunteer for as many activities as you can, hang around after masses, oftentimes there be a little get together with baked goods and coffee or something else where people smalltalk, great for getting to know people. join the choir, ask the priest for advice on how to participate more, see if you can volunteer to do reading. Try and make as many friends as you can, the bf will come eventually from this
>go to weekly masses, listening to announcements or check the church bulletin. Volunteer for as many activities as you can, hang around after masses, oftentimes there be a little get together with baked goods and coffee or something else where people smalltalk, great for getting to know people. join the choir, ask the priest for advice on how to participate more, see if you can volunteer to do reading. Try and make as many friends as you can, the bf will come eventually from this
Holy shit, I cannot believe you guys actually do this sorta shit. REALLY? You really join a church choir? REALLY?
Church is a good place to meet potential partners, especially since it confirms you'll have pretty much the same belief system.
I go to church but the girls are ugly
That's being vain, shallow and vapid
How do people even hook up from church? Families walk in and stay quiet listening to priest, mass ends and everyone rushes out like a bunch of ant colonies. Where does the interaction come into play?
I was also wondering about this.
Americans have like cool-church-for-teens where they study the bible and do jesus tik toks on weekends, and also like BBQ parties and whatever else.
Obviously it's moreso one of those megachurchs and not some tiny village swamp church with 5 80 year olds in it.
How attractive are you? Are you a virgin? What do you do with your time?
im extremely insecure but ive been told im cute even though i dont believe it ;-;-;; (and i dont rlly want to date someone who is too shallow) im khhv and i spent most of my time daydreaming, watching anime or working... ill also work out from time to time
I hope you find a nice bf who is also a virgin and treats you very well and you get married and have kids and live happily ever after
>im extremely insecure but ive been told im cute even though i dont believe it
You're probably a little above average, maybe a 5.5 or so.
>i dont rlly want to date someone who is too shallow
Do you care about a guy's looks? It's just the truth that dating is easier for attractive people
>im khhv and i spent most of my time daydreaming, watching anime or working... ill also work out from time to time
What do you work in? I'm guessing you're planning to wait for marriage
no, i dont care about his looks at all. at most i think id just want him to care for and maintain his health, like i am doing.
i work at a kindergarten, and yeah im waiting for marriage
thank you anon ^_^ i hope the same for you too
And please leave this site you are to pure for this place
Lose some weight
im at a healthy bmi, even on the slightly lower end... sigh...
okay! thats actually pretty good advice. thank you very very much 😀