my boyfriend is really verbally abusive most of the time and i'm pretty sure he hates me but he can also be really sweet and i don't know what to do anymore. he will argue with me and make me cry and end up self harming for hours but then apologizes and acts like nothing happened. he tries to fix it with money and gifts but i don't want either. i just want love, affection and attention. he wants me to move in with him in a few years but i don't know if i even want that anymore
I can give that to you, come to me
you wouldn't like me i am miserable lol
im trying but I need reassurance
sorry
Suck my wiener and let me face frick you
>men offer solutions
>woman rejects them
every time.
im not rejecting im just pointing out the truth
Stop wasting time running your mouth and start gagging on my wiener baby girl. We are going to pound the shit out of you stupid c**t. You came here to get gangbanged by robots
They are willing to get abused as long as they are in the presence of someone physically attractive
this is not the case at all
im trying even when he insults me and yells at me and tells me he hates me i tell him i love him and explain how i feel but i just think it annoys him more
im unhappy but he can make me really happy sometimes. i don't know how to be alone
We dont give a shit princess. Get to sucking my wiener now
>this is not the case at all
Then please explain what you're doing
he treated me really good when we first met idkim sorry things just went downhill but idont want to be alone
he bought me the blades I self harm with and I only end up self harming when we argue
irealluy just don't knowodkjdkmdnmd
>irealluy just don't knowodkjdkmdnmd
Something made him stand out from all the other options. And it probably wasn't the fact that he attended Sunday school.
when I met him he was like super persistent, he would message me even when I wouldn't text back and he would ask me about my day ask me what I was doing and it was all rlysweet but then when we started dating he made me cut everyone off for him and made me dress and act the way he liked and since I have no friends anymore I was always all up on him which would rly upset him and now we argue a lotand idk im trying to leave because he's literally saying he doesn't like the way I look but he won't let im confusef
being alone hurts as much aas being abused
I am the one self harming. he bought me blades when we first met and ever since then, we argue and I end up self harming until I pass out hhahknsdm
I will thanks
what did you think of the videos, do you think any of ur old close friends would be willing to help you out if you contacted them again?
the videos remind me of my relationship a lot, he's bad to me most of the time but its worth enduring it because there's times where he's really sweet. but it just hurts so badi can't even look at my own face anymore ijustwannadie
I cut everyone off with no context and blocked anyone who tried to message me so its really unlikeluy
fembot, i think youd be surprised at people who are willing to help old friends, as long as you didnt go out of your way to yell at them or tell them mean things they will understand, do you have any family that are willing to help you out, also you may not believe this fembot, but there are moids out there who will love you without all the abuse, and treat you properly, do you feel that your current abusive partner makes you feel inadequate and than you can choose it to make it all better by apologizing even though he is the one creating all this strife and pain to keep you down and worthless so he can keep you like a little gollum, he does not truly love you or respect you, only feeding you false crumbs, he is very pathetic theres are many robot type moids or normies who would be willing to help if you let them, also why did he buy you razors when u first met
Not reading any of that now say yes daddy I will be a good girl and let you face frick me
>but idont want to be alone
So you would rather be abused
maybe this video too fembot, its a 1min short
Maybe stop being a stupid b***h and he wouldn't have to yell at you.
who fricking cares. please go attention prostitute some place else. every day with these homosexuals, you dont belong here. frick off
>verbally abusive
not a real thing
You are a hole and you deserve the abuse
Elaborate on some details are you the one self harming or is he? What do you mean by love attention and affection? Have you asked for these things? Have you communicated your wants?
If so leave.
If not then do so.
You are making this more complicated than it should be. You are not married, and depending on the length of your relationship and when this behavior started, it may be worthwhile to do counseling if this a new thing and you have been in a long term relationship for maybe 6 months.
Frick yall haters im just gonna boost
No one cares stupid c**t
>my boyfriend is really verbally abusive
>make me cry and end up self harming
>i don't know what to do anymore
The power of Chad, ladies and gentlemen
Leave him, I can give you the love and affection you want
you would not like me i can be really miserable most of the times imoverly clingy and very attention seeking in my relationshipshhhahaha
>most of the times imoverly clingy and very attention seeking in my relationshipshhhahaha
Use that to solve your troubles by pushing him down and fricking him every time he gets needlessly angry.
abusive then sweet, he knows how to play huh
enjoy the ride
Just leave or don't. Commit to one of them. You're clearly unhappy so do something about it.
>"i just want love, affection and attention"
troonnnnnnnnn
i am biofem lol
he isn't boring at all but he's very toxic which I don't like
uhhh
36c but im starvingsoi can lose weight so maybe not for long
im not sure he's being really awful to me right now and idk why he's saying he hates my body and stuff and im trying to leave but idkidkdkdidikd
okay I will thank u
>he isn't boring at all but he's very toxic which I don't like
Maybe the two are connected somehow. I mean, you're dating him for frick's sake.
>uhhh
Just say yes daddy
>my boyfriend is really verbally abusive most of the time and i'm pretty sure he hates me but he can also be really sweet
That's why you love him, though. At least it seems like he's definitely not boring.
How big are your boobs?
This is important given the topic at hand
sounds like bpd, you should leave him
wait, never mind, thought he was the one self harming
sounds like you have bpd
hello fembot, u should watch this video
jesus fricking christ. you're acting like you have no agency. You can't control what someone else does. That's beyond you. What you can control is what you do. So make a fricking choice. Is the "abuse" so bad that it's not worth being with him or not? If so, leave him. If not, endure it. Those are your options. Quit hemming and hawing and asking for help from imageboards. Just be decisive for once in your worthless foid life. God I hate women.
>God I hate women
:O Me too! We're best friends from now on!
My homie get OFF this board first of all
See a therapist bout your daddy issues
>is really verbally abusive most
>but he can also be really sweet
thats textbook manipulation just leave him for an anon you find on here
All you women are the same
1 breasts or GTFO
2 post his face so we can roast this probable homosexual
I have nothing good going for me so why not I guess
ain't no way. you're just an eprostitute dawg
Hot as frick. Post more and with a timestamp.
oh it's a troll. that's too bad
you actually look very cute fembot 0.o
date me now and lets self harm together
women are just.
no wonder he hates you, you're fat, brown, ugly and a prostitute (like every woman)
you literally deserve all the abuse and none of the love he gives you, unironically have a nice day
that's what i would say if i was dumb enough to fall for that bait, look at all these simps though, pathetic
You are literally perfect. Please come to Odessa Texas and be my self harm scars GF. I make 200k in the oilfield and you can spend it all on therapy and piercings
Lol, you are gutter trash. Here's your (You)
here we go again
jesus christ
just send your ass spreaded anything else in this thread is going to be a huge waste of time
hhhahahhhbvfnkkm mim gonna kiollkmuself
You have a beautiful body, sweetheart. Nothing to be ashamed of.
everyone hates menow I shouldnthave posted that idk what imdooiiignnnnn
I justwant to be loved
this could be us fembot, i will love you as long as you hug me like this
can youadd my discord and we can be friends pleaseim alone its friutsnak
everyone is being mean to me I reallyregret posting that this is why imsingle now
and here we are, discord harvesting
what did I say about the waste of time the rest of this thread is going to be
I will change myusername I justwante ftpo add that anon
well everyone ithik omgicant. type but everyone is being mean and it is my fault its ok I just want friends idont know
wgat
It's not your fault at all
your e being rly nice to me thank u I am calmigndown sorruy
im soryyryrgfjbfhif im okayi m jusyt upsey and goure right they're only photos
That's a lot to go through in a short period of time, sweetie. Breathe for a little bit. I saw that you had scars, and I'm a bit worried that you may harm yourself 🙁 How are you feeling?
hhhajajna silly pic but imok I think I will killmyslef tonight though
Please call an emergency number. I'm worried about you.
i have nothign going for me right now. idont know what im going to do though I am talking to some nice people but he is blowing up my phone hahaha
Sweetheart, it's going to be alright, but you need help now urgently. Please call an emergency number.
don't talk to him, he is trying to take advantage of you. talk to us
Is there anybody in the house with you? Could you talk to them and tell them you need help?
my dad but idont want to even admit that I fe el this way
its so frickignnnnnnstupid of me to kill myself over a. guy right?
I just dontknow anymore
what does th is even mean
im not im not picking up the phone he's spamming mme
Tell your dad. Please.
Baby, please either block this guy or put down the phone and go tell your dad that you need help. I'm worried about you.
he's going crazy on mehhahasjdbf I need to distract myself im starting to feel really guilty
im trying I really am
the problem is tjat I have self harmed recently so I could get sentawayor something
hes trying to make u feel guilty by blaming you for trying to get a better life, also they can search ur person without consent, just wear long clothes and bandages and they cant prove the injuries were from self harm or accident
cant* search ur person
You didn't do anything wrong. You don't owe him anything.
fresh meat going to waste. what a shame...
>fresh
uhhhhhhhhh
I can't explain it properly, but I fricking hate the type of people like you. Just so annoying asf
Enjoy Hell BPDprostitute
You seem very distressed 🙁 I want to send you a hug. It's okay, they're just pictures. You don't have your face in them or anything.
>everyone is being mean to me
Who's being mean to you? You don't have to post more if you don't feel comfortable, baby. You're a very strong girl.
>everyone hates menow
I don't hate you, sweetheart. Everything is okay.
You're a cutie patootie. Slip that pretty top of.
idont want to take anymore photos everup=o==ne hates menow
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idont think ypud like me but I madeadiscord if u want totalk
Oh 🙁 But you're so pretty. Just one more with the top off? Boobies are nothing explicit. We want to compliment your body.
no one hates you dear
that's nottrue
iw abt to dieieeiyuud im alone now and now everyone is mean to me and I shouldmthave posted that that was myfault I don't know what I should donow
we broke upforgood now itihink
It's okay, babygirl. If you ever need to talk, we're here for you <3
okay thank. u urrlu sweet
I thi k so if. he doesn't pull me back in
you should not fear him pulling you back in
narcissists are complete pieces of shit they will always do this
tell someone else about it and do not engage pic rel is how some random guy acted when I said I didn't want to meet him irl
icant control myself and I know ill give in I feellike im gonna give in. or he's gonna send the police to my houseor something haha idk
I really just can't go back to the hospital
stop responding to him. he can't do anything. don't give in
just tell the police this guy is an abusive schizo that you broke up with, theyll take your side
give in if you want more abuse and to be his narcissistic attention slave (they always keep insulting you even if you act genuinely)
don't if you want another chance to meet people who actually give a shit. it's that simple. don't fall for the trap of feeling bad or afraid of what will happen if you stop entertaining him.
>inb4 this is another fricking LARP of some e-girl pretending a guy is after him for easy sympathy from anyone with sense. happened before more than once and it could be happening again
I will stop responding to him but I think im going to give him another chance if he decides to fix this later idki believe people can change
he has like aaallll of my personal info haha
imthinking about it I dontknow im scared
can they go through my room???I have a lo t of self harm stuff and there's blood all over my bed and bathroom and some on my walls its bad
ifeelbad
no they need a search warrant to do that, i mistyped sorry
people like that never change, they just say whatever they can to convince someone else in the moment
Sweetie, you may feel bad, but it doesn't mean that you did anything wrong. Emotions are not rational. Everything is going to be okay, but you need to tell your dad. I'm very worried 🙁
i self harm and i am suicidal, i can understand not telling anyone
>I think im going to give him another chance if he decides to fix this later idki believe people can change
there's literally no reason to do this. there's nothing you need from him, if you think you need his attention you can get it from literally anywhere else
>he has like aaallll of my personal info haha
>ifeelbad
see, he has that mental leverage over you and you're scared to defy him because of it. even if you don't admit it to yourself that's probably the only reason you decide to show any respect to him. cut yourself off, you're not his hostage, and treat him how you would anyone else, a piece of shit who is your enemy. narcissists are trash and in reality worth far less than the average person, they are extremely mentally weak and insecure to the point they need an emotional punching bag which is why he's so afraid to see you go. you have everything to gain from leaving him and everything to lose if you bury yourself further
even if you're only talking to him because you fricking hate yourself he isn't actually thinking about you as a person. it's like romanticizing someone stealing your car because they wanted YOUR car and YOU'RE so important to them when they just wanted to make some easy cash and never interact with you again
women will date a man named "Carson" before they look at me. I cant think of a lamer name than carson. maybe gilbert or gunther.
Please block him. He cannot do anything to you.
>I really just can't go back to the hospital
Oh sweetie 🙁 Please, tell your dad.
>we broke upforgood now itihink
good, hope this is real and this thread actually helped you improve your life
i dont like putting my discord on /NSFFW/ so i made a new account and from there i will give you my main one the new account is throwaway912
send us a video
>would youreallu wanna be with me
yeah why not?
do you want a robot bf type, are your nips sensitive i would give you cunnilingus and suck on ur nips whenever you want and than we can cuddle after you cum
Go complain on facebook or twitter you stupid b***h
Your family fricking failed you
>my boyfriend is really verbally abusive most of the time and i'm pretty sure he hates me
ok, so explain why you're still with the narcissist. fear of what he'll do if you leave? that's what he wants you to feel
Am I witnessing anonymous NSFFW grooming?? Doesn't this shit usually happpen on discord?
shut the frick up dumbass go back to your uhh r9gay thread gay
thread is depressing
i agree, but it's funny as frick at the same time
You missed the train bud. Better luck next time
the fact that you see this as an opportunity is the depressing part as a matter of fact
Opportunity? I never said that. So you did miss the train. Take it easy
what are you even trying to imply
you seem to be the one who's insecure about a basic state of event, which is the absolute state of loneliness every male itt must be to simp to such an extent, and in a collective way at that
This is a cycle he won't change. And it's addicting to you because sometimes he gives you what you want and sometimes no. This is literally addictive to everyone and there's studies on this something something pigeon in a cage pressing a button.
Leave him, if you didn't do this shit before he's a net negative and you need to learn to move on.
ucks
bpd and npd are made for each other, why bother anyway
I'm only verbally abusive when my woman doesn't do what I want. What are you doing wrong? Sex is never an issue anymore, I don't even have to say anything when I want it. Only times I get angry now is over the house being untidy.
Anyway, you are asking for trouble if you're adding random men to chat about how mean and abusive your bf is and how you weally need hugz. You, deserve a good beating for that alone. Clean the house, grease up your butthole, and thank him from the bottom of your throat for putting up with and supporting you. We both know even if you leave him you'll only end up with another abuser. Abuse victims aren't drawn to abusive men, their behavior invites abuse because they just have to cause problems. It's well documented but no one wants to admit this is what's happening so they word it differently. I'm telling you the truth of the matter. Clean, put out, express gratitude, and don't quarrel. You'll find him in a much better mood with this. The problem is you don't actually like when he's nice to you. You prefer being yelled at because it reminds you of daddy.
ithink this person is right this is all mu fault im just going to stop responding to this thread and delete my discord I fricked up thank you everyone for thehhelp happy days for everyone
That guy is a larping moron, don't listen to him.
Actually braindead. Can't help someone who can't help themselves tbh senpai
stop with this larp, and dont listen to that deranged neckbeard schizo poster
I litera;;y don't know what to do like I, overwhelmed everyone is telling me it's my. fault and he s making me feelnrealky guilty but he's making me sad sndijustwanna be happy and I don't kkwnewockneim gonna cry I just want this to be over
Please go to your dad and tell him what happened 🙁
stop being so inconsiderate
I can't I really cantbill be fycked
it hurtswhen people say rude stuff to me so sometimes I try to fix it but I think I onkyly make it worse because I overreact a lot
I donknyow what's rational??right now I miss him so much
>i miss him so much
YOU LITERALLY STOPPED TAKING TO HIM AN HOYR AGO
6thats a long time for me we are usually together all the time and calling snd texting and hahagvs idk im gonna die I miss being loved
being alone makes me more suicidal than iam now
yea he thinks im fat too
im not bpd
getting mad and yelling at you and than letting u cut yourself is not love!
>yea he thinks im fat too
You're not fat. You have the perfect figure <3
only fat people say these kinda things
Speaking from experience, lardass?
yeah experience seeing fat people cope
If you think she's fat then you're fricking blind, bro. I don't know what to tell you. Or the more probable option is that you just want to push her buttons.
i mean she might not be fat compared to you so i understand your pov
>being alone makes me more suicidal than iam now
This isn't a solution its just a different problem. You aren't here looking for genuine insight or guidance though, you just want someone to validate what you consider to be the easiest option. The path of least resistance. It feels better to not have to hold yourself responsible for your suffering but it doesn't solve anything.
You know what options you have and their consequences, you're just scared to face them.
Hiding your thread.
If you don't want to tell your dad what happened, could you at least go to him and tell him you want a hug or something? I don't want you to feel so alone.
>yea he thinks im fat too
well duh, you are obese, you'll never look like picrel, fatty
im fasting until friday im trying to lose weight okay I know
He's messing with you. You look perfect.
iam just going to close this thread now
I wish you all the best. You're very cute and beautiful <3
you can lose weight but you'll never look like this because you're ugly and brown
Lol wut? That chick is a 5 and the fembot is a 8.5
-_- no.
>right now I miss him so much
That's not rational, that's emotion. Forget that for a minute and think about how you could just be alone and none of this would effect you at all. You'd be lonely, sure... but better to feel that than feel this.
u just miss the manufactured high of being abused and than forgiving you, the cycle never ends, he is just a pathetic manipulator saying whatever he can to keep you under his control
and she's a pathetic borderline sufferer so here's a match
You should fix it by showing your holes
you seem very emotionally spongy, do the opinions of others or feelings of others seem to affect you more than most people, usually when i sleep i get an emotional reset the next day or at least feel a little better, are you more emotional sensitive than other people
Acting out of emotional reflex hasn't gotten you in many good places, maybe you should put your emotions aside and try to focus on what's rational for a change.
the only thing u can do is completely block him and cut him off, he cant contact u and u can find someone who isnt an abusive butthole
>im just going to stop responding to this thread
>keeps responding
so stfu and stop responding
people keep replying and it makes me feel guilty to ignore them
I know but it isn't always like that
thank youthatsreally sweet
I guess
because its an abusive cycle! remember the video fembot! he uses it to keep u on a leash, if it was abuse all the time you would leave, but he can sprinkle forgiveness to trick you!
she didn't watch it. she's here for validation. it's everything
said
You're a homosexual who doesn't know shit about how people work
>because it reminds you of daddy
Maybe that's why she hasn't spoken to her dad right now, as anons suggested Xd
Good job everyone. The experiment is over, everyone can go home now
Grooming is a good thing. This girl would be much better under my care.
>but I think im just gonna kill muslef
please do
im sorry for wasting everyones time im going to get back with him. i would just rather die than be alone and i can probably fix this. thank you everyone for the help but im sure im just being annoying now. it means a lot that everyone tried to help me butim just stupid
well that was short lived, rember fembot that any moid would happily be willing to save you and give you a happy life
rember robot that any mentally ill femoid would rather get assraped and abused than listen to your loser useless help
thats cool how is ur abuse gf going for you than
and how is your little bpd princess going after you've simped so hard hmm I do wonder
okay but answer this before you leave, is he black? that would be hilarious
no he is white
yeah you'd be dead already otherwise
You're not wasting our time, baby. I want to help you as best as I can.
im sure that i am and im trying to break up with him but i don't think im going to stick to it but it meant a lot to have people to talk to
why would i ever want to abuse someone
Sweetie 🙁 I know that it's very tough. Is there anybody else you could call? Somebody you could talk to? You don't need to tell them anything, just so that you're close to somebody.
Another foid falls to abuse Chad. Can anyone stop this madman?
damn this beach is so dumbo
She's as bad as the one who was depressed over her 40 year old teacher being sent to jail for grooming her. If this isn't an egirl bait thread it cannot be helped, she must figure it out for herself.
This is an interesting anthropological demonstration. The female has certain sets of needs: it needs to have sex, it needs to be protected by a dominant man, it needs to be comforted, etc. Usually all of these needs are met by one person. But when they are not, the female, like Harlow's monkeys, will use outsiders just enough to fulfill its needs, and then will go back to the preferred person. This specimen finds comfort in its boyfriend, but is willing to post breasts if that gets other men to comfort it, because the boyfriend doesn't provide the specific kind of comfort it needs in the right way. The obvious conclusion is that women are all selfish.
Alright, David Buss, now frick off.
For a moment today I felt depressed and stopped feeling empathy for women. I guess I'm feeling empathetic again. Why do you always make me want to care for you?
any of you robots still talking to her, what happend
idk she said "thank you for trying to help" and hasn't responded since
abuse chad wins again, its so over bros, what could we do
yeah i would describe myself as a personality pilled individual and i had a feeling from the start it was futile
if her boyfriend is "really verbally abusive most of the time" but she still finds a reason to stay with him then it's dire
ya i had a feeling her impulsiveness would swing the other way just as fast, if u dont know them personally or are physically near them its kinda impossible
Im sorry babe. You should take another pic and bend over for us to make him jealous
>verbally abusive
VERBALLY ABUSIVE? VERBALLY ABUSIVE? VERBALLY ABUSIVE? VERBALLY ABUSIVE? VERBALLY ABUSIVE? VERBALLY ABUSIVE? VERBALLY ABUSIVE? VERBALLY ABUSIVE?
WHAT WORDS DID HE ABUSE? WHICH WORDS? OMG! DID YOU CONTACT THE WORD POLICE? DID HE NOT CHECK HIS GOD FRICKING DAMN WORD PRIVILEGES? WORD RAPE! WORD RAPE!
he said mean things to me and I am just a fragile little girl made of paper ):
do not contact him, talk to one of the nice moids you added
This is the gayest shit I've read all day, and I had the displeasure of scrolling past r9gay
Why not just hide it?
My filters reset anytime I close my browser, because I delete my cookies on exit.
Leave him. And don't get with any of these homosexuals, they'll be just as bad or worse.
Also, stop attention whoring please, it's very moronic and all you're doing is making fat neckbeards hard.
women will complain about incels and then stay with men like this. How much do you guys want to bet that he is above average height? I have a feeling this girl just posted this to taunt me.
Checked. Also pic related.
ethinic women will let white men treat them lke this and expect us to care when they are being attacked in the streets. omg.
girl this is no place to look for advice, the best thing you can do is set your own boundaries or just dump him already, if he makes you feel that way then it really can't be love can it?