My girlfriend has been texting my friends some crazy shit and I have no idea what to do. I don’t even know how many of my friends she’s already texted. For context I found out she was sexting her ex not too long ago.
I’ve been focused on passing my finals lately so other than a half hearted “don’t talk to me” text I haven’t really done much else.
Dump her, obviously
>My gf has been sexting others. What should I do?
So these are the /adv/ "chad" morons who shit on others for rightfully hating women.
Not all women are like this, you need to stop generalizing.
Correct, but hating all women is still less moronic than whatever OP is doing.
Okay, yeah definitely if his gf is sexting with an ex he should have broken it off. I agree with you he is kinda stupid
Show me one that isn't
She sounds legitimately insane, does she have any schizos in her family? Anyways, once you're finished with your finals you should probably talk to her about what's wrong, were there any problems in the relationship beforehand?
If this is out of nowhere and you're planning on marrying and having a family with her, I hate to say it, but breakup with her.
Yeah, the way she’s trying to isolate me is kind of terrifying. I feel like I need to be VERY careful with what I do next because I have no clue on how a person like this will react.
>For context I found out she was sexting her ex not too long ago.
Okay. What is the question you're having, then?
Or smokes weed. That is a huge trigger for schizo episodes.
>Or smokes weed. That is a huge trigger for schizo episodes.
I somewhat agree, also cocaine.
>dont want him sharing personal business
>so im gonna share personal business
>but he better not tell you I cheated on him
>also don't invite him but make sure I get to come
Are you moronic OP? Ditch this stupid prostitute immediately
That’s the plan but I have no idea how crazy and spiteful she is going to get. I’ve never seen this before.
>The so called “Chads” of /adv/ are scared of a foid
You get what you fricking deserve.
Maybe start by not fricking texting her. Call your buddy and tell him to tell her the party is off. Break up with her in person then go hang out with your friends once you're done studying
She's a BPD. Dump and go no contact.
Dude, the moment you find out she's sexting an ex should be an instant dump. Every text you've sent? You're painting it as
>Troubling
when really it should be
>unhinged
Are you so parched for pussy that you'll take someone who's willing to wipe their ass with your dignity? Because that is what you are getting here. That's what this is. You have nothing good to hope for by continuing with her. And now that she's texting your friends? I guarantee you that all of your friends hate her, are annoyed with her, and are eagerly awaiting you dumping her but they're too nice to say anything about it because she's your girlfriend and they don't want to piss you off.
>For context I found out she was sexting her ex not too long ago.
Dump her and tell your friends what actually happened from start to finish - the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. If some of your friends simp for her unironically after you telling them the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth stop talking to them and if they dont apologise soon.
I was "dating" an NPD/BPD girl in high school and about a month and a bit later she would talk to me about other guys. The "relationship" was devoid of intimacy and I was "taking it slow" for her. Around the month and a bit time, one guy I used to play soccer with at the park after school told me that he liked some girl from my school in year 8 called *same name as my then "girlfriend"* (there was another girl of that name in year 8, my "girlfriend" as in year 10 and so was I) and that she was in year 8. Two to three weeks later he told me he started to "see" this girl. The next day I spoke to that girl in year 8 and she looked so perplexed: she did not even recognise the description (which she chuckled at) nor that she was seeing anyone. I mention that to my "girlfriend" and she seemed worried. The next month during the week of the volunteering program at a primary school as a kindergarten teacher she was going to meet with me, her friends would come too she told me - the night before. I already eaten, since the second time we met she brought her lunch and already ate it; the first time we ate McDonalds together and she declined KFC emphatically. So the day to meet her with her friends, they went to get KFC. I noticed them from the distance at the usual place (about 50 metres) I would meet her and perplexed that she got KFC with her friends instead of with me. They did get they food rather soon, it looked like they were talking to some guy in the KFC uniform behind the counter for about 10-15 minutes and they were also laughing.
Cont.
I asked them about it and one of her two friends said that they were just talking to a friend. About two weeks later and a week after my birthday I call her on a Friday night while I was playing Gran Turismo 3 A-Spec, driving a purple Nissan 400R on Special Route 11 and after a brief chat she tells me she wants to break up to "have fun and enjoy life". It felt like my brain turned upside down and inside out and I pleaded with her. She wanted to end the call and hung up. I call her two friends (the same ones from the third time I met her that week) and one said that her friend got into an accident and it affected her, the other friend seemed to have acted mildly surprised and to "give her sometime". A year and a bit later I notice them in the car together after I exited the newsagency. I told a girl that was her acquaintance about it she laughed. The next morning her other friends found out and one of her staunch girlfriends said I was "bullshiting" but then it seems one person after an other noticed them around the area. She is a fake, a liar and a cheater.
To this day she tries through peer pressure to get me to make her my "girlfriend". At my friend's 21 she made a surprise appearance and I told her to frick off.
OP, get fricking rid of her. She does not love you. Tell your friends the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth!