My sister is mostly asexual but feels bad saying no, so she gives random guys sex if they insist. She was crying to me the other day and told me about how she felt used for her body. She said that on multiple occasions guys would start kissing her and then taking off her clothes, and she would just freeze up with anxiety and remained paralyzed until they finished.
She says she is depressed and suicidal. I'm really worried about her. She is very shy and doesn't know how to handle situations under pressure. I'm not sure what I can do to help her. We grew up in a broken family too, so she never really received any guidance from our parents.
How do I help someone in this situation? I am not available to follow her around all the time and protect her.
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Soon enough she will find a nice man to settle down with and finally become a full-time asexual
Women were a mistake
She is lying, she willingly puts herself in situations because she enjoys it but rationalizes this to tell herself it’s not her fault.
This
Eventually she'll trick a guy with money and cry rape to get it.
genuinely feels like current relationship if I can even call it that
stop hanging around stranger men alone and get therapy to learn boundaries and respect
>and she would just freeze up with anxiety and remained paralyzed until they finished.
Anon that's literally rape. People get sent to prison for this shit. I am not joking.
Regret isn't rape
If you freeze up and are paralysed by fear while someone helps himself to your body, yes it is 1000% rape.
Nothing in the tweet rules out rape either. If someone violates you without consent, it doesn't matter if you previously said you loved them. It's still rape.
Thats a rationalization after the fact, a lie she tells to maintain her social network.
Women lie.
Don't be naive.
Everybody lies, but very few people lie always. I have unlimited faith in my relatives' ability to tell the truth, be they male or female. YMMV.
I never said they "always lie" butthole
I never said you said they "always lie" butthole
Yeah you made a strawman that I did.
Point out where I did that and trace the reasoning.
Right here butthole
>Everybody lies, but very few people lie always.
Where's the reasoning?
>Everybody lies
This is true.
>but very few people lie always
This is also true. I did not say that you claimed the opposite, I am simply bringing in a new point for consideration, and moreover a truthful one.
It's not my fault that you've chosen to read in more into what I am saying than I intended. If anything, I have suspicions that you were the one playing me for a fool and pulling word tricks but I didn't see the need to accuse you of anything.
It is non-sequiter to my assertion, and its entire function is as a strawman.
No one is calling "ability" to lie or tell truth into question.
I am pointing out she is lying here.
It's not a non-sequitur because I am elaborating on the statement you made, "Women lie", which could use expansion. As a matter of fact, both of your responses up to that point in the conversation were non sequiturs to what I was saying, since at no point did I talk about women withdrawing consent retroactively but about situations where consent was never there in the first place. This is also very clear in the posts.
>and its entire function is as a strawman
You are wrong, frankly I do not see why I would need to strawman you. Again, your post was not addressing what I said. Instead of arguing with you about that, I simply chose to run with what you said and present things as I see them - sure, some women lie about rape, but OP probably has no reason to doubt his sister, and it is also true that if she was in the situation OP described, she was raped (as per my earlier comments).
>I am pointing out she is lying here.
So you are accusing OP's sister of being a liar, even though you don't know her, or anything about these situations? Then there's nothing for us to discuss, because you have already made up your mind without any particular reason or piece of evidence to support your opinion.
You're so full of shit anon-kun
You may KNEEL now. I will allow it.
I kneel to you, shitlord
I respect that. You should read Plato when you have the time. It's the best thing I can offer you over the web.
You’re a degenerate homosexual, glad you’re imposing Darwinism on your failed bloodline
Kek. It depends on the context, I guess. If she is displaying obvious signs of discomfort, the guy needs to stop and ask if she's alright. But if she just rolls with it and pretends it's fine without saying anything, like that tweet, how the frick should he know she secretly doesn't like it? That is literally your fault. You've failed to communicate your desires to another person. It really is no different than what women usually do, where they expect a guy to read her mind then get mad when he doesn't. Fricktarded.
>If she is displaying obvious signs of discomfort, the guy needs to stop and ask if she's alright. But if she just rolls with it and pretends it's fine without saying anything, like that tweet, how the frick should he know she secretly doesn't like it?
I think everyone can tell the difference between someone who's frozen and someone who's speechlessly but actively participating in the sexual act.
And once again, there is nothing wrong with that tweet. I could be in love with a girl, tell her I love her, hug her, kiss her, visit her home etc, but if she knocks me out with a drug and rapes me in my sleep, it would still obviously be rape. Rape is the uninvited violation of one's body. Even a person you love can rape you so long as they force the sexual act on you against your will.
If I stick my dick in and you're wet, and you cum from the sex? I don't really care at that point.
>"That's great to hear, sir - now, about your Fifth Amendment rights..."
So many men are extremely rapey and they can't admit it to themselves so they make up shit like "even though she was scared and anxious she just regrets it because I am ugly" They can't even admit they are undesireable. Of course most of these men have rapey tendencies because they are virgin fantasies
Ask her for sex.
>I let every guy i meet dick me down but i'm totally asexual guys
Yeah right lol, lmao even.
>and then taking off her clothes, and she would just freeze up with anxiety and remained paralyzed until they finished
I used to do this. She'll feel much better if she can get herself to set boundaries and say no.