Ok, why don't you approach women? You guys are talking about "le decline of the west" yet can't even make eye contact with women. You really think you're going to save it by being virgin losers?
Ok, why don't you approach women?
Relationships uncensored
Too busy gooning sry
I don't go outside. I'm 30 now and I never talk to women, never even tried. Pursuing them makes you look desperate, and that's unattractive. If they are interested they will come to me.
>I'm 30 now and I never talk to women
Same.
>never even tried
I did try, years ago.
>Pursuing them makes you look desperate, and that's unattractive.
Agreed.
>If they are interested they will come to me.
No, but they will give you signals that they are interested. That does involve going outside and meeting them though.
>That does involve going outside and meeting them though.
Nah, that makes you look desperate. I'll wait for a goth girl to knock on my door.
I talk to women, but when I have to. You’ll lose your job for sexual harassment if you’re as friendly with them as you are male co-workers. That’s why it’s important never to smile at a woman, talk to them in a monotone voice because if you’re voice is too deep they could be intimidated by it, and never talk to them about anything that is not work related.
Yeah but jobs are for wagecuck losers. It's a badge of honor to be fired by these homosexual israeli corporations. You should always ghost those losers and steal from them and leave bad reviews and tell everyone you know that they are scum. Employers show no respect for the employed so this is war. Why would you ever show any respect to a corporation when you could sabotage and undermine and rob them instead? Corporations are evil and you are like robin hood every time you hurt a corporation. You should always fearlessly get yourself fired and reveal your full power level as often as possible. and then be threatening to your former israeli employers. This is war. They are the enemy.
wtf are you literally me
maybe?!
I have not been outside since 2019. There is no need after the plandemic because I can order everything in and hvae continued to do so. Before then I used to go into the office but I did not talk to women because HR can easily fire you in the corporate environment and she doesnt like young guys like me hitting on the hot young girls.
It's very rare for a woman to approach and if they do it's usually for a guy significantly more desirable than they are.
Two girls asked me to be their boyfriend in high school but I was autistic and didn't do anything.
>Pursuing them makes you look desperate, and that's unattractive.
This. People would constantly bug me about not trying or engaging with women, but every time I did I just ended up looking more pathetic than if I hadn't tried.
I think you are too focused on perception. How will others see me? What if I fail?
Embrace failure. Failure is part of getting good at *anything*. The first time you start a business, you will frick some aspects of it up, and people will have negative judgements about you. The first time you write a book, it might get rejected by 50 publishers. The first time you have sex, you might worry about feeling inadequate or awkward. The first time you manage a large investment account, you will make trades or allocation choices which remind you there is more to learn.
How you handle failure is everything. So what if some gutterbawd didn't immediately take a liking to you. Is that a reflection of her, or you? Do you need to internalize every mistake or missed opportunity you make? When you engage in situations in which you are inexperienced, when outcomes are unpredictable or can't be completely controlled, do you need to lock the best version of yourself up in a closet and never let him out?
Imagine a man who has never invested before, he buys $1000 worth of shares in a company that instantly collapses. He erupts into tears, shame, screaming "I'm the WORST investor, I destroyed the company! I never should have even tried! I'm not meant for this!"
Is that an accurate reflection of what happened? Or was it a lesson about not putting all your eggs in one basket, betting incremental % of your account every month passively and rebalancing rather than taking leaps, doing better research on their market position, setting accurate stop-loss, ...
Or, did he unnecessarily internalize these events and rob himself of the lesson he paid to learn, gaining nothing but bad feelings and disappointment?
>I think you are too focused on perception.
Maybe, but it seems like a pretty legitimate concern from where I'm sitting.
> How will others see me?
When I didn't care about how others perceived me, I was even more annoying and repulsive to women than I am now.
>What if I fail?
It's not a "what if?" anymore. I've failed enough and consistently to understand. It fees like shit, and not just the regular "I got rejected" shitty. More like the "why did I touch the red hot piece of metal again and think it would do anything other than burn me this time?" pseudo-insanity kind of bad.
>So what if some gutterbawd didn't immediately take a liking to you. Is that a reflection of her, or you?
When gutterbawds brag about fricking dozens of strangers in a given year but place me outside of their standards, it's a reflection on me. Being left with nobody but gutterbawds and single moms because I was too lacking in self-awareness to be attractive in my teens and twenties, is likewise a reflection on me. My friends and family are successful on dating apps and get approached by women in public. My inability to do so reflects poorly on me just as much as their success reflects well on them.
> When you engage in situations in which you are inexperienced, when outcomes are unpredictable or can't be completely controlled, do you need to lock the best version of yourself up in a closet and never let him out?
The problem is I am experienced, and that experience suggests that I'm the type of guy women only put out or make an effort for if they're A. Fat/homely/have 1+ kid(s) and B. Are extremely drunk. I've internalized all my failures because they are ultimately my own. It's not their fault for being disgusted by my looks and social moronation, any more than it's my fault for being disgusted by single moms.
> rob himself of the lesson he paid to learn, gaining nothing but bad feelings and disappointment?
Not sure what else to try to learn at this point.
They mean approached by chad, not by some random NSFFW incel
Bro if you listened to /misc/cels and looksmaxxer chuds there are only like 6-7 “Chads” in all of existence
Well then tell them to approach women. If you are here, it’s safe to assume women don’t want to be approached by you - period
>looksmaxxer
you sound like you have ramen hair.
>Ok, why don't you approach women?
1. No tail
2. No wiener
3. Mouth
And by men they mean good looking men
Having babies alone will not save the country from destruction. Plus, who wants a baby anyway? Not me, thats for sure.
because a 31 year old who gets nervous, is awkward, and doesnt know how to talk to women is one of the more pitiful sights to behold, and I am courteous enough to prevent such sights from happening.
beyond that, should a connection ever occur, it would inevitably fade away as any woman would find me unbearably boring or intolerable in other ways. the entire endeavor sounds painful, forced, and unpleasant.
maybe stop being unbearably boring and intolerable
No. Because I don't perceive it that way, they do. And I don't care what they think.
I doubt you're as exciting and personable as you think
Again, subjective. I acknowledge I am not exciting nor personable. But I don't think I am, in the common perspective, but I am content with myself and who I am. Na na na na boo boo
>but I am content with myself and who I am
that doesn't mean you're not a loser
It's only awkward because you never do it. Get comfortable in the role.
Washing machine men approach them? I don’t get it.
last time I hit on a girl at work she made a bunch of subtle comments about pedophelia as if to insinuate I was a pedophile for showing interest in a woman. I do flirt with 20 year old women despite being past 40 but that's because women never gave me any attention at all in those 40 years so it's my turn to frick your 20 year old women. I won't flirt with any dried up old women with no eggs. I only want fertile women and I'll continue to only want fertile women between the ages of 18-30 well into my 60's or 70's. Women over the age of 30 might as well just kill themselves because they serve no purpose.
>woman pretends to be male on NSFFW
They seem to forget we know there are no girls on the internet.
>Talking to women
Why?
Don't have a problem with that, the ladies all want the BBC's we black kings have.
Scrawny whitebois just can't get anything done.
>Desire to be approached more
>(but only by Chad)
Desire to be approached more*
>*by Chad Thunderwiener, anyone else should remain at least 50 meters away or they're committing rape
Women shouldn't expect men to do the washing for them.
Talking to girl at office I th9ught we were having fun laughing and joking, finish talking expect her to say something as is part of normal conversation
>why are you standing there
Girl at work gives me a note that I'm cute, eventually end up at my house for some sexy time
>checks phone notifications while I am on top of her trying to get things started
Run into ex-gf that i loved at store that has a bf of a couple years still
>anon I still think about you, doesn't elaborate and leaves
Many other girls
>doesn't care, fine with their situation, doesn't need a man, doesn't want a man, too busy with phone
That is off the top of my head.
You were supposed to take her phone and Chuck it across the room and then pound her pussy with your dick, moron.
That one's on you
Nah I'm done, she was just asking about my std results I am getting back soon, she was very interested in it because, last time you mentioned, she was treating our body parts like bio hazards, no blow job, no pussy eating, kissed for like 2 seconds before checking instagram notification, wtf is going on, what is that? Anyways I suspect with the no oral sex and condom she had a bad time with dirty loads or something. Oh yea when I get my results, I still am not going to show her my clean papers, haha.
LMAO you know that means she is a disease factory right? She got burned and now is making you 'prove' yourself by compelling you to get an STD test, while she required no such formality for the homeless men she let cum inside her?
> she was treating our body parts like bio hazards
> no pussy eating
dude you need to be a better detective. she's sending very important signals and you're getting an STD test. the one who needs to present a validated bill of goods is HER and she flipped it on you via projection because of her self-image issues.
I know I know, we were also stimmed the frick out at the time. I got an std test of my own accord, to have proof and the knowledge I am clean, not because she asked me to or anything. We haven't talked in months aside from office formalities, I know how to play the game and when she seen my arm asked about it and perked up when I said I got tested and said she is very interested in the results. I know all this dude, I'm so fricking far ahead, my next move is to get the results then stay quiet about it all, I'm going to say it's what I expected and I am happy with the results, nothing else. Thinking I'm some hay seed "oH ReAlLy ShE hAs A dIrTy PuSsIe?!" Of course any girl in the future has to show her papers too, I'm fine with going back to jerking off and ignoring women, if not looking forward to it.
I'm not going risk getting arrested for "sexual harassment" or w/e the frick.
the arrest will happen 25 years after
>talk to women
done it many times, usually a unfun task. With waifu bots around the corner Ill just wait. Also I cant see myself bringing offspring into this current dystopia clown world.
If women=winning then I want to be a loser and I never want to play that horrible game
Women want to be approached by a handsome, young selfmade billionaire with a troubled past.
Explaining them that this won't happen is very hard
Disney has irreparably damaged multiple generations of women
This, making the descendants of lowly serfs believe themselves princess was no good
Woman was standing in front of the oatmeal on her phone at the store and I want some oatmeal.
>Excus...
>I have a boyfriend.
Its funny how every time I try to interact with a woman she just throws in I have a boyfriend, even if it has nothing to do with the conversation.
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>Be me
>In grocery store
>Making epic salad at salad bar
>Hot milfy lady next to me
>She's wearing a short shirt and expensive leather sandals
>10/10 painted little piggy toes
>Grab the huge bottle of thousand Island dressing to put on my salad
>Give it a firm handshake
>Some Chud loosened the top
>Thousand Island dressing everywhere all over milf ladies cute toes and sandals
>She's fuming
>I refuse to elaborate and 360 moonwalk out the door without my salad
The blue portion are ugly fat landwhales or single mother mudsharks with mixed race trog babies.
>why don't you approach women?
Because I've been rejected too often, got depressed and now I'm 40 and my flat is a mess.
Any other stupidly fricking moronic dumbass questions, b***h?
Rejection is part of the game dumbass
You need to learn to savour it, then move on
>now I'm 40
You don fricked up, but it's never too late for a man
>Rejection is part of the game dumbass
yeah well I was never a player, homosexual.
>muh homosexual
Three kids and counting
Your ancestors spit on you
Your "flat" is a mess?
How would 1h of housework be preventing you from doing anything? How is this not solved already?
>washing men approached them in person
???????????????
it should be "wishing", do try to keep up and posting only a series of questions marks without formulating a single sentence makes you come across as moronic.
35 year old virgin.
Got brutally rejected in high school and never recovered.
i am a 24 yr old, soon 25 virgin. got rejected in primary while asking out a secondary girl and got rejected, i unironically thought i was going to marry her.
I have never recovered from this.
>the meek will be disinherited
And that's a good thing
> You really think you're going to save it by being virgin losers?
Please, a massive contingent of us are oldgays who are married and have kids. Get a grip.
>asking women what they want
yeah, sure thing, lets just forget why dudes dont do this
>Ok, why don't you approach women?
I only leave my house to go to the grocery store or target. Some guys can undoubtedly pick up women in public like that, but I sure as shit can't. Even after shaving my balding head I'm still "scary to talk to"
Where exactly are these women to approach? My routine is buying food, using the library, walking, etc and I don't see it. It's a total mystery how the human race hasn't died out.
I think they are on the apps and facebook and twitter, thats how they find peopel.
If Rittenhouse attacked commies today, the fellow traveler red diaper babies of /misc/ would turn him in and root for a guilty verdict.
>If Rittenhouse attacked commies today, the fellow traveler red diaper babies of /misc/ would turn him in and root for a guilty verdict.
Sorry wrong thread, but the sentiment stands.
>why don't you approach women?
beacuse they'll approach me... any minute now
t. 34 yo virgin
I see maybe one woman a year that I'm (relationship wise) attracted to, since I don't care for hookups, sexual attraction alone does nothing for me. I hate vanity, self absorption, and makeup, 3 things which most modern women have in droves, so the majority genuinely repulse me. Occasionally I'll go out somewhere and see a 20 something plain faced waitress who is thin & a little cute, & that's the woman I think about approaching. It's so rare I can count the number of times that happens in a year on one hand.
If women want to be approached more, they should enrich themselves in ways that aren't vapid, vain, and skin deep. They should outwardly show that they're not shallow & are grounded.
STDs, nothing interesting to talk about, vaxxed or untruthful about vax status
>approach woman to strike a normal conversation
>"OMG THIS STALKER NEARLY RAPED ME!"
That literally never happens unless you actually are a creepy mother fricker. Work on your manners dood
Two things.
One it's obvious not how they would respond in public. It's just what some b***h posts online later.
Two it's always how they respond to a completely average dude just speaking normally to them.
And? Is your ego so fragile?
Why do you care what some c**t posts online if she's not riding your weenor?
Are you in high school
Nobody wants to go into the humiliation ritual known as modern dating and even less being exposed as creep by tiktok bawds.
Not a surprise men aren't approaching
There are a lot of Ukrainian q13pies in my town lately. They approach me daily. We have a lot of sex if you know what I mean.
t. cashier
Girlfriend nonsense isn't a pol topic. Go to soc.
The sad state of sexual relations in this country is one of the most important subjects today.
Creating and teaching the next generation is literally life or death.
Me, being a pussy expert, I feel like there is a lot of discussion and perusing of images necessary.
Family and relationships are one of the pillars of civilization, they're definitely political
>israelites 2023: women frick dogs!
>israelites 2024: it’s all your fault men, stop being an incel and approach women!
Make up your minds, israelites.
>israelites 2023: women frick dogs!
>me, pic related
>get divorce raped
No.
American women are worthless. I'm not involuntarily celibate, I'm voluntarily celibate because I have actual priorities like surviving the crash.
Most dating is now done online and non-Whites can’t compete against Whites in hypergamy.
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/what-do-the-worlds-most-beautiful-people-have-in-common-theyre-all-white_b_7067186/amp
>What Do the 'World's Most Beautiful People' Have in Common? They're All White
https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/
>47% of Black adults report being single, higher than the share among other racial and ethnic groups.
https://mashable.com/article/racism-online-dating
>Asian, Latina, and white straight women all refuse messages from Black men -2021
https://www.ucpress.edu/blog/54733/dating-while-black-online-but-invisible/
>Black men and women daters were particularly discriminated compared to other minority daters. White straight women are twice as likely to respond to White men compared to Black men. -2022
https://www.inverse.com/culture/36379-tinder-black-women-asian-men-racism
>“Black and Latin men faced ‘similar discrimination,’ while white men had ratings “most high among women of all races.”
https://www.newshub.co.nz/home/lifestyle/2021/07/no-blacks-no-asians-no-indians-sexual-racism-on-new-zealand-s-dating-scene-and-how-apps-are-making-it-worse.amp.html
>For ethnic minority men in western countries, it usually manifests itself in feeling undesirable - and Asian men are among the worst-affected.
https://www.futurity.org/racism-dating-apps-2890062-2/
>White women were the most discriminatory in their exclusion of Black daters, which is also an important finding.
https://news.stanford.edu/2019/08/21/online-dating-popular-way-u-s-couples-meet/
>Meeting online has become the most popular way U.S. couples connect, Stanford sociologist finds
https://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2016/02/college-aged-adults-are-now-the-most-likely-online-daters/462384/
>College-Aged Adults Are Now the Most Likely Online Daters
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>women want-
Didn't even had a "crush" since 2020, should I call myself an incel?
How old are you? I haven't had a crush on any girls since high school, but I put it up to the severe decline in women quality.
The target isn't incels anymore.
It's volcels.
I've been rejected too much. There are limits to how much rejection a human being can take. Imagine if all our male ancestors had to be rejected by dozens of women to find someone to marry, we'd have died out as a species a long time ago. No man in history would have hacked it in this clown world.
I'm usually too busy working or being tired from work. Where do I even go to talk to women?
GlowBlack folk get paid from married men's taxes. They're scared of single men who don't pay taxes and therefore don't pay the glowBlack folk.
We need a tax revolt.
I'm just not very interesting.
>feed my ego by allowing me to reject you
Let me Clue you in - if you’re hot girls will approach you, at any age. A woman who is actually interested will do anything to give you an opportunity to compliment them including finding ways to be alone with you, talk to you, kiss you, compliment you, etc. While you might do well/get laid approaching a girl, if they approach you first you have a much higher chance of having a successful relationship or getting laid. They’re acknowledging you’re better looking than them. Women want to date up, men date down. Approaching a woman confirms you’re beneath them.
That totally explains the girl that asked ME out to frick and when the time came I was on top and she was checking phone notifications, what in the frick is that. Women are in love with the idea of something but not the actual something.
I used to approach, did hundreds of approaches, got a few lays. I was planning to start approaching again but I seem to have lost all desire for women. I see a hot girl I feel nothing.
short, balding and small penis
death sentence
Just ask Jeff Bezos, he's all three of those and for all his billions can only manage a hideous bogged prostitute for a wife.