>A: Women avoid eye contact with guys they don't like (to not give creeps ideas to approach)
>B: Women avoid eye contact with guys they like (because they're shy when they like you)
inb4 "I'm autistic so I never do eye contac-" ACK
Question for female women
I NEED A WOMAN TO LOOK AT ME THE SAME WAY
every time I see this gif I think about how braindead she looks. like my dog when I'm eating a burger
girl in my class turns around to glance at me. First time it happened I didn't think anything of it. Second time she turned around a bit, our eyes met, we both looked away, a couple seconds later she glanced again, as if to confirm that I was really looking at her, then she looked away again and did it a final time. I got nervous and didn't look at her again for the rest of the day. Couldn't look her in the eyes as I crossed her in the hallway either. What does it mean?
>What does it mean?
she's telling the principal you're harrassing her
honestly something like that crossed my mind, but couldn't she just stop turning around lol?
How olde are both of you?
I'm 26, she's probably around 20 to 25. Honestly feels like I'm in high school again, where the same thing happened with some other pretty girl, and I just couldn't even imagine why she'd be into me, so I decided it was probably in my head. Looking back, I'm pretty sure the girl in high school actually was into me, this one right now though, I don't know.
in your opinion what is a bigger sign if attraction: that she maintains eye contact and smiles or the opposite (avoids it).
she doesn't smile, seems like a shy girl (I'm shy too) and we both break off the look really fast. but yes, logically, if there was no interest, she wouldn't be doing that at all, right? I guess there's an argument between "no looks when not interested" and "no looks when interested", but is there an argument for "looks when not interested"? It doesn't really make sense, right?
You could be weird looking or have something off about you that draws interest.
>weird looking
I don't think so. Not about to post myself on here, but I think I look pretty normal.
>have something off about you that draws interest.
for that, no idea.
the gaze where both of your eyes lock mean mutual attraction and both people are looking for partners
for the autists
no way. so many girls have done it to me throughout my life, it would mean I missed out on all of them? can't believe it. sounds like bullshit
I avoid eye contact with all moids
>inb4 "I'm autistic so I never do eye contac-" ACK
the guy isnt even looking at her he's talking to someone else while she gets to cop a look
A woman at work who probably likes me holds eye contact with me when talking. I'm usually the one to break it briefly and when I look at her again, she's still looking in my eyes.
Never caught her looking at me outside convos but I'm pretty shit at detecting stares from other people.
She also finds reasons to touch me on my hands and arms and gets into my personal space. Usually happens when we exchange objects.
>She also finds reasons to touch me on my hands and arms
this is a dead giveaway, you just need to seize the opportunity, if you want it. I wish the girl I'm crushing on was that obvious
What if she's just touchy by default?
She has photos on FB where she is pretty much touching cheeks with her best friend and hugging her.
She also has no photos with any men..to the point at which I suspect she might not be straight, even tho it's probably just her being shy.
depends on each woman. personally if i'm in a situation where i'm in some kind of group conversation for example, and there is a guy i'm lusting after, generally I will look anywhere except at him since it feels too intense to look at him, especially in the eyes. but I will still glance when I can tell he's paying attention to something else.
>t. body count 1 female femanon
I mean it depends on the guy, doesn't it. Although one thing I can say I do is, when I like a guy, I'll stare at him a lot when he's not looking but get all shy and look away when he is, whereas with some creepy perv I'll just try to ignore him.
>whereas with some creepy perv I'll just try to ignore him.
thanks for saying that. I'm the guy higher above asking about that other girl in his class. So, it's safe to say that if you found the guy creepy, you wouldn't be returning stares at all, right? Which means that if you do return the stares, it means you're into it, correct?
nta but if i sense anyone staring at me, I won't return it at all, even to check if the person is attractive.
For me, yes. But it's equally possible she just wants to keep her eye on you incase you do something weird. Don't treat it as consent just because she's looking at you.
>possible she just wants to keep her eye on you incase you do something weird.
sounds kind of unhinged. It's not like I'm constantly staring at her.
>Don't treat it as consent just because she's looking at you.
consent for what, exactly?
Oh I see. In your situation, it more sounds like nervous glances to check if you're still looking at her, but I can't say for sure. Don't take this as a definite no she's not into you, but it could go either way.
>sounds kind of unhinged. It's not like I'm constantly staring at her.
Yeah well she doesn't know that, she just looks back and sees the moid is still looking at her.
>consent for what, exactly?
Sex, being overly touchy, basically anything that could make her uncomfortable.
>Yeah well she doesn't know that, she just looks back and sees the moid is still looking at her.
I think she looks at me sometimes. I'm not sure, but I've noticed she'll lift her head up to look at me when I pass her by. I don't often return the looks because I'm nervous.
>Sex, being overly touchy, basically anything that could make her uncomfortable.
this is making me laugh. Do you think I'm just going to walk up to her and sexo, or start touching her? I've never talked to this girl. I don't know what world you live in, but the most I'd do is ask her out.
>I think she looks at me sometimes. I'm not sure, but I've noticed she'll lift her head up to look at me when I pass her by. I don't often return the looks because I'm nervous.
That sounds good. I still don't think we can say anything for sure, but that doesn't sound like she thinks you're creepy.
>this is making me laugh. Do you think I'm just going to walk up to her and sexo, or start touching her? I've never talked to this girl. I don't know what world you live in, but the most I'd do is ask her out.
Yeah it sounds stupid, but you really don't know with this board. I see absolutely insane men on here who I can tell would rape a woman in a heartbeat from a second glance from her.
All right, well I think I'm going to try to get braver and look at her more instead of purposefully avoiding her stare out of shyness. I'll try smiling at her once, who knows what will happen. Honestly, the last thing I'd want is to make her uncomfortable, that's just not me, but well, out of nowhere I started caring about having a girlfriend when I never have before, and I have a crush on her, so if I want that to happen I need to fight off these thoughts telling me to stay away or I'll never have a chance.
Thanks for the back and forth.
I avoid eye contact with guys I'm into. But it's different when it's just attraction vs. a crush. With simple attraction the anxiety isn't so bad, but if it's more than just simple attraction, it's extremely hard for me to look at the guy, and I avoid eye contact.