Tighter than ass overall. Ass you can only feel at the entrance, which is tighter than pussy, but after that it feels like literally nothing. Not to mention it lacks the texture that pussy has too. >T. Bi sex haver
I've only ever done it with a condom on and with a prostitute, but to me the sensation of putting my dick inside is way less noticeable than the feeling of pressure on my whole crotch region when I thrust or when she comes crashing down while riding me. Just a constant fleshy thump thump thump that makes my whole crotch region feel tingly and warm. It's really nice.
I can't recall ever noticing any tightness or grippiness from her vegana specifically. But again, this may just be a condom thing. Condom sex feels good enough that I'm not really that eager to try it without one though. I'm satisfied.
>I'm satisfied
I'm not. I struggle to cum with a condom on because it feels pointless if I can't physically fill her with my seed. It's like a psychological block or something and this is so frustrating to me because this is the only way I can have sex (escorts). I get mad when I think about my friends who have gf's on birth control that they can just creampie over and over. Wtf do I do how do I get over this?
That's kind of bizarre. Idk. Try doggy style to finish off? That seems to be the most stimulating. Or just ask her to give you a blowjob or a handy to finish you off.
I have had some amazing nuts from raw blowjobs and cumming in her mouth, I'm extremely grateful they offer that service because it's the 2nd best thing for me. But I just have such an obsession with breeding and wanting to creampie a pussy directly that I view this as the peak and ultimate goal and I'm unable to reach it with the condom. I'm fully aware the condom is wrapped around my dick in the moment, it brings me out of it, and I have never cummed from it despite trying so many times (I have gotten very close though). Maybe I just need to roleplay or something and try to pretend it's not there.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
Like removing the condom? The way ive done it in the past is by getting the girl to go doggystyle, then before i put it in roll the condom up to the head of your wiener, stick it in, flex your dick and push up and back, it should roll off and you can enjoy her body now. Ive only done it once to an escort because she was being a b***h and legit pissing me off since i messaged her so i figured, fine, you want to be that way, im going to go and nut a bunch inside you, only thing youre good for.
As for organisming with a condom on, legit just pay attention to something else, feel her body, listen to the noises shes making, grab her hips or breasts, kiss her, etc. I guess i dont jack off as much and that helped me too, along with just not being nervous. Thats another thing that will help you cum as well. If she allows it hug and kiss her for as long as you need, that never fails to make me finish without a concern.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
Seems like it would be suspicious to find a ROLLED-UP condom slipped off inside.
Condom off to me is extremely intense. Maybe its an autism thing but i swear my sense of touch is off the charts most of the time so i can feel her heart beat and her muscle move and her whole body react to mind when the condom is off. Best way i can explain it is suddenly getting the sensations of another person along with your own, i usually close my eyes and it feels like becoming one person because of how much i can feel of her. I understand why a lot of religious and spiritual people viewed sex as connecting two souls. I just wish i had such an amazing experience with someone i loved and not a prostitute too.
I never met a girl who didnt give head without asking. However I had one ex who wouldnt let me eat her box, it was totally off limits. When discussing why I asked her if it was because she viewed oral sex as a degrading and submissive act and she replied "...maybe....".
She relented in the end and let me go down on her.
depends heavily on the womans body weight and if she has had kids. Ive noticed very skinny women are so tight its nearly eye watering even after foreplay, normal weight to chubby girls tend to feel like a warm hug to me, but still fairly snug i guess. A woman can easily control her baseline tightness too with kegals so im not sure why this is a problem. As far as i can tell age or experience doesnt really make them more loose unless they are really old or do extreme gape stuff. An 18 year old to me felt looser than a near 30 year old i had sex with.
Also women loosen up when they get aroused, you can feel it around your fingers or your tongue when you feel them. I usually take it as a compliment if they go open up a bit immediately, it usually means they are comfortable and like whatever i am doing which increases the chance of me nutting inside them, which is obviously enjoyable to me.
I think the position makes a difference. I've only had sex once (woman on top) and I don't remember the sensation being that crazy (still got off). I fingered the chick before we fricked and it was seemed pretty tight around my finger and I could feel her inner walls contracting around my finger so idk.
Yeah man I don't feel as much when she's riding either. It's disappointing because it's my fav position since her breasts are in your face and it's so intimate and you can hold her and hug and if she's really feeling it she can control the pace completely and do what feels good for her which is a turn on for me. But the actual sensation on my penis is not as amazing as I always imagined it would be.
Doggy style is probably my least fav position but paradoxically makes me cum the quickest lol. It sucks. And then missionary just feels awkward and uncomfortable with the limb positioning
No. I would be embarrassed to ask her for it. Seems kind of fun though but idk also very effeminate since it asks you to spread your legs wide open, right? One of the best parts of sex for me is that it makes me feel confidently like I am a man.
Pussy should always feel good. If she's aroused it'll feel a little loose if you're small, because she's really wet, but then her pussy muscles will start pulsing around your dick and there's no better feeling.
If you're used to jacking off dead grip style it's an adjustment and you should stop if you're planning to frick anytime soon
It depends on both the woman and the man. The same way you can find wieners in multiple sizes, pussies come in multiple sizes, they're not one size fits all.
So if you mix a woman with a giant gaping hole together with a man with a tiny little weenie, you're very likely to feel exactly what you've experienced.
If you're still a virgin in your late 20s are you guaranteed to cum a couple pumps into your first time having sex at late age like that? How do you avoid that if you somehow manage to get a woman in bed that late?
I cum in like 2 minutes when jerking off but can easily last 20+ minutes in sex. The strenuous physical activity makes it less easy to cum, or rather easier to cum when you want to. I lost my virginity in my early 20s though.
It depends on how wet and warm they get. Ive fricked fat girls where i was able to fit my whole hand in their pussy and then other large girls where two fingers was "a bit much" for them. Like wise thinner girls who were more accommodating or not. If a girl is really wet and turned on its amazing what you can fit in there.
Depends on the arousal levels of your girl mostly. Every pussy is a little different, but the biggest difference I noticed is when they're too aroused. They literally start leaking, their pussy widens and you don't feel anything at all bc it's all slippery and there's no friction. For example when women ovulate they're typically more aroused and horny and the sex will feel less intense. But having sex a few days prior to their period, they'll be less aroused and less horny, therefore less wet and the sex feels more intense. A good trick I learned is to choke them to get them tighter
I'm in my 30s now, was a virgin until 27. For some reason I have the hardest time getting off from actual pussy. With a condom it's completely game over. With a normal Fleshlight I can cum easily but real sex is so different. I even fricked an 18yo who was so tight I could barely get my 6" in at the beginning. Once it was in, there wasn't a lot of sensation though. And no I'm not mutilated. Having to fap for all those years probably fricked me up and makes it mentally weird to be actually doing something with a real person.
Having a steady gf to rewire my brain and dick would probably fix it over time, but I've never had that. Kinda sad because it basically made me lose interest in sex. Most men are afraid of cumming too fast, but imagine fricking a girl to 2 orgasms and you can't cum. Women will always blame themselves and think you're not attracted to them. Or if they get too frustrated with the situation they'll just assume you're gay and leave you.
>I'm in my 30s now, was a virgin until 27.
How do you lose your virginity once you're in your late 20s? Seems almost impossible for any woman to give you a pass for the inexperience. Was it with a prostitute?
I was always the shy friendly manlet, hoping my actions would make a girl fall for me. Too pussy to ask them out, etc. People always telling me I look good and would be a great bf, but none of them would date me or knew anyone else who would.
One time I was on a dating app and saw an exchange student 2 years younger with an open relationship and she was also a sex coach. So I literally sent a message "please take my virginity" and she actually responded. Couldn't feel much through the condom though. Getting kissed/hugged/caressed and feeling boobs after all those years far outweighed the sex experience. I kinda still felt a virgin after that. Not experiencing intimacy really does damage a person imo.
Fun fact: I've had 5 hookups in total and after the 18yo, a 37yo single mom from the Philippines was the tightest I've had. As soon as she'd get on top and rode me, I couldn't last a minute.
Second fun fact: None of the women I've been with minded my lack of experience. 2 actually got off on teaching me because they were about 5 years older than me. Knowing how inexperienced I was, they also let me have at it without a condom. I never actually came inside a woman though. Either because they weren't on birth control or the condom made it impossible to cum.
So it was like winning the lottery. Congrats. I hope I make it one day too, but I won't hold my breath.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
Not him but I lost it at 29 and with a normal person not a sex coach or some shit. Talked with her on hinge and all I did was act like I've had sex before all the way until she was in my bed. At that point it's a bit awkward for them to leave after realizing you're obviously bad at sex, but that was irrelevant to me as my goal was simply to know what pussy felt like.
Basically try and larp as a non virgin as hard as you can.
3 weeks ago
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>Basically try and larp as a non virgin as hard as you can.
Hasn't been working out for me greatly. But I suppose there isn't much else I can do. fml
You're probably going to need to be a dragon/unicorn and couple hunt. If you're only attracted to women as an afab ftm, you're playing on extreme difficulty, good luck!
>I'm satisfied
I'm not. I struggle to cum with a condom on because it feels pointless if I can't physically fill her with my seed. It's like a psychological block or something and this is so frustrating to me because this is the only way I can have sex (escorts). I get mad when I think about my friends who have gf's on birth control that they can just creampie over and over. Wtf do I do how do I get over this?
I've had sex thousands of times over the last 18 years (mid 30s here) but only like 4 or 5 of them with a condom. They fricking suck and it's some kind of mental block for me that totally kills the mood. Luckily most girls (in the west) are on birth control and don't really care if you don't use a condom. In my experience, Asian girls like those in Japan are not on the pill as often but I've never had too much issue persuading them to frick raw anyway.
>Most men are afraid of cumming too fast, but imagine fricking a girl to 2 orgasms and you can't cum. Women will always blame themselves and think you're not attracted to them.
So fricking true, man. A couple of times I've actually been inside some chick, lasting for ages wanting to get off but can't. She goes "maybe I'm not your type". lol what? I've been hard and inside you for like 40 minutes, pretty sure this time it's a me issue but whatever.
>lol what? I've been hard and inside you for like 40 minutes
Exactly this. A short while ago I had a girl over at my place for a week. She was visiting the country. It had been 2 years since I did anything with a girl, so pretty touch starved. >first night we start kissing etc on the couch >slowly move to the bedroom to continue >eventually had to put on a condom because she wasn't on birth control >spend half an hour fricking her and she's loving it >missionary so my arms are tired at this point >realize I'm not even close to orgasm >eventually pull out >she asks if I came >tell her no and that it's probably not happening but it was great and I feel so relaxed
Next thing I know she grabbed her underwear and got out of bed. When I asked what she was doing she said "I'll sleep on the couch because I don't think you want me". I literally had to convince her to stay in the bed to sleep.
She just got off her period so it was pretty safe and we did pull out the rest of the week. Only twice was I able to get off from fricking her though. Thankfully she was 2 years older than me and once we had an adult conversation, she understood why I couldn't cum.
So it was like winning the lottery. Congrats. I hope I make it one day too, but I won't hold my breath.
To be honest the 18yo was a lottery ticket, because she slid in my dm's and initiated the whole thing. She was an angel, but due to the age gap it didn't last longer than a month. No fight thankfully, we both understood the situation.
After my experience I was glad I never paid a ton of money for a prostitute. The only reason I might recommend going to one is to realize how mediocre sex feels compared to how you imagine it in your head.
How am I supposed to get a gf as an afab troony?
I had to google afab. Unfortunately I think hairy men with a vegana are the least popular fetish. I haven't heard of women scissoring with a ftm.
>The only reason I might recommend going to one is to realize how mediocre sex feels compared to how you imagine it in your head
I'm under no illusion that sex with a prostitute would feel similar to sex with somebody who finds you attractive and craves it as well, be it a hookup or a gf. The only reason I would go with the prostitute route would be to get rid of things related to inexperience, like being nervous next to a naked woman, cumming too quickly or not being able to cum at all due to nervousness, hands shaking and getting sweaty, etc. I would treat it as a form of self improvement on the emotional and physiological front. Losing these quirks would go a long way in making me appear more desirable. But I'm still hoping that things will turn out okay. I just rationally know that my life is not heading in that direction.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
Yes like I said, you can do it so you know what it's like (platonic) and maybe it'll take edge off interacting with girls for you. I just promised myself I'd never pay for sex/porn and so far managed to hold that up. It's almost the opposite effect where I question if I could ever have a successful relationship if I can't cum from piv sex.
>I literally had to convince her to stay in the bed to sleep.
Lmao it's amazing the kind of shit girls will invent in their heads despite immediate prior evidence to the contrary. I blame society teaching them that men are always down to frick and come so they probably think there's something wrong with themselves if their man can't do it.
>I blame society teaching them that men are always down to frick and come
True. As with most dating things, the double standard is insane. If a woman can't cum from piv sex and needs a vibrator or whatever to get off, people will jump at the chance of defending her. "she says she's enjoying it so why are you questioning your performance" "don't be so insecure" "don't put pressure on her to cum or it'll never happen". When the roles are reversed, something is wrong with the man or he's not attracted to you or he's gay.
So I'm better off detransing? That's fine.
I'd say you have much much higher odds of getting a cute lesbian gf while you're a tomboy, than if you go trans.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
Got it. They're one percent of the population so looking is going to be hard af.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
Well straight women who don't like dick are one in a million, so 1% is relatively good odds by comparison.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
You'd probably be better off with dating apps that give filters to other girls that are looking for girls. Or join a lesbian dinner club or something idk.
If I've learned anything from this thread, it's that I'm an extremely under-experienced and depressed pseudo adult >t. level 37 khhv spergtarded fugly manlet wizard
There is no version of reality where I have sex with someone who isn't paid and preforming
I'm sorry man. When I got past 25 I felt like it was over for me too. And yeah the older you get the harder it'll be to find a woman who doesn't have kids or STDs or insane standards or other reasons they're single.. Everyone deserves affection but it seems nobody gives a frick when men are suffering by themselves.
it depends if she have had children or she uses toys to frick herself daily.
It really feels like a cavern there is no other way to describe it.
As I said, one of the tightest pussies I've experienced was an asian single mom of two. She only used a vibrating toy when jerking off though, no penetration. Maybe that somehow got her back to factory settings over time.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
she might be using that trick when they conciously clinch their pussy I mean you can literallly tell if she is doing it.
My first ex gf use to do it sincerely feels different that an actual tight pussy, a tight pussy is better.
3 weeks ago
Anonymous
I know what you mean but I'm pretty sure she didn't. First time we had sex she immediately climbed on top of me to ride me and as I said I could barely last a minute. When I told her to stop because I was about to cum, she sat down all the way on my dick. Almost filled her up at that point, but thankfully she got off just in time.
When I was able to get hard again half an hour later we did some missionary and that was fine. Rode me again to finish me off that second time. I would've noticed if she was flexing her pussy during those times.
>I literally had to convince her to stay in the bed to sleep.
Lmao it's amazing the kind of shit girls will invent in their heads despite immediate prior evidence to the contrary. I blame society teaching them that men are always down to frick and come so they probably think there's something wrong with themselves if their man can't do it.
If I've learned anything from this thread, it's that I'm an extremely under-experienced and depressed pseudo adult >t. level 37 khhv spergtarded fugly manlet wizard
There is no version of reality where I have sex with someone who isn't paid and preforming
the idea that pussies loosen with use is a myth. some girls just have bigger veganal cavities. another factor is that girls loosen up when they are aroused, so if she's loose, she's horny for you.
I have a slightly different mindset and experience from having had sex with a lot of girls young and old.
I love loose pussy. For those here who said it feels like a cavern, there is still part of her pussy that you're touching with your wiener it's not like fricking air, and there's something soo mentally stimulating about a loose pussy.. you've know she's taken something bigger so I pound her out then take my wiener out and spread her pussy. I love looking at loose gaping pussy
Must be such a relief when the panties come off and you're presented with such a beautiful pussy. Nothing worse than a hot girl with a roastie to spoil it.
It really depends on the girl. My first girlfriend was this mid looking girl of Indonesian/chinese descent. But this girl was a nympho, and I loved the sex we had. She was always so into it. Always so wet. Always tight and perfect.
Compared that to my 9/10 white wife, who was a virgin when I met her. I love her to death, but I swear my dick and her pussy just aren't compatible. She has a super low libido, sex hurts her most the time, she's "shallow" so I'm always hitting her cervix and it hurts her like hell. She's never wet so I have to use lube or my spit, and I have to reapply during sex. Sex can never last most than 15mins or else she's going to get pelvic floor pains. And you'd think she'd be tight but no.
They say it's a meme that Asian girls are tighter, but I've read a lot of testimonies on here of guys claiming they've never had better pussy than from an Asian.
I haven't slept with many girls, but she was far and away the best lay I've had. We'd frick twice a day. Hot sweaty making out creampie sex. Was her pussy better because she was a nympho and her pussy craved my wiener? Or was it better because she was a smallish asian girl? Hard to say. Maybe a bit of both.
I guess this is the equivalent to women thinking about that guy with the perfect dick that fricked them so good, and isn't their current partner.
It makes sense that veganas on the inside are as different as dick sizes. Unfortunately you never hear the claim that a pussy is too big, just that a dick is too small. All the responsibility on the man as usual.
most caverns are very tight
Were you in nutty putty cave
I feel like its relative like if yiu have a massive dick then most girls will feel amaizing
I remember pussy clamping down on my penis and I had to pull out in fear never touched a pussy since
Anon, I'm afraid I have some bad news for you...
Pretty moist tbh. It leaks fluid whenever aroused and cleanup is pretty challenging tbh.
Im asking if its thight you dumbfrick
I'm super sorry. I apologize
Built 4 BVLL
Nice photoshop and angle there anon
Tighter than ass overall. Ass you can only feel at the entrance, which is tighter than pussy, but after that it feels like literally nothing. Not to mention it lacks the texture that pussy has too.
>T. Bi sex haver
I've only ever done it with a condom on and with a prostitute, but to me the sensation of putting my dick inside is way less noticeable than the feeling of pressure on my whole crotch region when I thrust or when she comes crashing down while riding me. Just a constant fleshy thump thump thump that makes my whole crotch region feel tingly and warm. It's really nice.
I can't recall ever noticing any tightness or grippiness from her vegana specifically. But again, this may just be a condom thing. Condom sex feels good enough that I'm not really that eager to try it without one though. I'm satisfied.
>I'm satisfied
I'm not. I struggle to cum with a condom on because it feels pointless if I can't physically fill her with my seed. It's like a psychological block or something and this is so frustrating to me because this is the only way I can have sex (escorts). I get mad when I think about my friends who have gf's on birth control that they can just creampie over and over. Wtf do I do how do I get over this?
That's kind of bizarre. Idk. Try doggy style to finish off? That seems to be the most stimulating. Or just ask her to give you a blowjob or a handy to finish you off.
I have had some amazing nuts from raw blowjobs and cumming in her mouth, I'm extremely grateful they offer that service because it's the 2nd best thing for me. But I just have such an obsession with breeding and wanting to creampie a pussy directly that I view this as the peak and ultimate goal and I'm unable to reach it with the condom. I'm fully aware the condom is wrapped around my dick in the moment, it brings me out of it, and I have never cummed from it despite trying so many times (I have gotten very close though). Maybe I just need to roleplay or something and try to pretend it's not there.
Like removing the condom? The way ive done it in the past is by getting the girl to go doggystyle, then before i put it in roll the condom up to the head of your wiener, stick it in, flex your dick and push up and back, it should roll off and you can enjoy her body now. Ive only done it once to an escort because she was being a b***h and legit pissing me off since i messaged her so i figured, fine, you want to be that way, im going to go and nut a bunch inside you, only thing youre good for.
As for organisming with a condom on, legit just pay attention to something else, feel her body, listen to the noises shes making, grab her hips or breasts, kiss her, etc. I guess i dont jack off as much and that helped me too, along with just not being nervous. Thats another thing that will help you cum as well. If she allows it hug and kiss her for as long as you need, that never fails to make me finish without a concern.
Seems like it would be suspicious to find a ROLLED-UP condom slipped off inside.
Condom off to me is extremely intense. Maybe its an autism thing but i swear my sense of touch is off the charts most of the time so i can feel her heart beat and her muscle move and her whole body react to mind when the condom is off. Best way i can explain it is suddenly getting the sensations of another person along with your own, i usually close my eyes and it feels like becoming one person because of how much i can feel of her. I understand why a lot of religious and spiritual people viewed sex as connecting two souls. I just wish i had such an amazing experience with someone i loved and not a prostitute too.
you are a kind soul. i hope you find someone to love.
Some girls are really tight and when you feel the pussy muscles contract it's very nice
I wouldnt know I only frick women in the butthole.
I never met a girl who didnt give head without asking. However I had one ex who wouldnt let me eat her box, it was totally off limits. When discussing why I asked her if it was because she viewed oral sex as a degrading and submissive act and she replied "...maybe....".
She relented in the end and let me go down on her.
depends heavily on the womans body weight and if she has had kids. Ive noticed very skinny women are so tight its nearly eye watering even after foreplay, normal weight to chubby girls tend to feel like a warm hug to me, but still fairly snug i guess. A woman can easily control her baseline tightness too with kegals so im not sure why this is a problem. As far as i can tell age or experience doesnt really make them more loose unless they are really old or do extreme gape stuff. An 18 year old to me felt looser than a near 30 year old i had sex with.
Also women loosen up when they get aroused, you can feel it around your fingers or your tongue when you feel them. I usually take it as a compliment if they go open up a bit immediately, it usually means they are comfortable and like whatever i am doing which increases the chance of me nutting inside them, which is obviously enjoyable to me.
>a near 30 year old i had sex with
bro taking one for the team
I think the position makes a difference. I've only had sex once (woman on top) and I don't remember the sensation being that crazy (still got off). I fingered the chick before we fricked and it was seemed pretty tight around my finger and I could feel her inner walls contracting around my finger so idk.
Yeah man I don't feel as much when she's riding either. It's disappointing because it's my fav position since her breasts are in your face and it's so intimate and you can hold her and hug and if she's really feeling it she can control the pace completely and do what feels good for her which is a turn on for me. But the actual sensation on my penis is not as amazing as I always imagined it would be.
Doggy style is probably my least fav position but paradoxically makes me cum the quickest lol. It sucks. And then missionary just feels awkward and uncomfortable with the limb positioning
Have you try the Amazon position?
No. I would be embarrassed to ask her for it. Seems kind of fun though but idk also very effeminate since it asks you to spread your legs wide open, right? One of the best parts of sex for me is that it makes me feel confidently like I am a man.
>her breasts are in your face and it's so intimate
yeah I pretty much sucked on her nipples the whole time she was riding me. it was pretty epic.
Pussy should always feel good. If she's aroused it'll feel a little loose if you're small, because she's really wet, but then her pussy muscles will start pulsing around your dick and there's no better feeling.
If you're used to jacking off dead grip style it's an adjustment and you should stop if you're planning to frick anytime soon
Female genitals are very adaptable
It depends on both the woman and the man. The same way you can find wieners in multiple sizes, pussies come in multiple sizes, they're not one size fits all.
So if you mix a woman with a giant gaping hole together with a man with a tiny little weenie, you're very likely to feel exactly what you've experienced.
If you're still a virgin in your late 20s are you guaranteed to cum a couple pumps into your first time having sex at late age like that? How do you avoid that if you somehow manage to get a woman in bed that late?
I cum in like 2 minutes when jerking off but can easily last 20+ minutes in sex. The strenuous physical activity makes it less easy to cum, or rather easier to cum when you want to. I lost my virginity in my early 20s though.
I lost my virginity at 34 and only lasted about 2min
Khhv at 26. Lasted about 5 seconds. Never had that happen while fapping before. Good thing she was made out of plastic and didn't complain.
It depends on how wet and warm they get. Ive fricked fat girls where i was able to fit my whole hand in their pussy and then other large girls where two fingers was "a bit much" for them. Like wise thinner girls who were more accommodating or not. If a girl is really wet and turned on its amazing what you can fit in there.
Pussy is muscular, it's tight at the start, loosens up as she gets horny and tightens up again when she cooms
Depends on the arousal levels of your girl mostly. Every pussy is a little different, but the biggest difference I noticed is when they're too aroused. They literally start leaking, their pussy widens and you don't feel anything at all bc it's all slippery and there's no friction. For example when women ovulate they're typically more aroused and horny and the sex will feel less intense. But having sex a few days prior to their period, they'll be less aroused and less horny, therefore less wet and the sex feels more intense. A good trick I learned is to choke them to get them tighter
Don't choke anon 🙁
I'm in my 30s now, was a virgin until 27. For some reason I have the hardest time getting off from actual pussy. With a condom it's completely game over. With a normal Fleshlight I can cum easily but real sex is so different. I even fricked an 18yo who was so tight I could barely get my 6" in at the beginning. Once it was in, there wasn't a lot of sensation though. And no I'm not mutilated. Having to fap for all those years probably fricked me up and makes it mentally weird to be actually doing something with a real person.
Having a steady gf to rewire my brain and dick would probably fix it over time, but I've never had that. Kinda sad because it basically made me lose interest in sex. Most men are afraid of cumming too fast, but imagine fricking a girl to 2 orgasms and you can't cum. Women will always blame themselves and think you're not attracted to them. Or if they get too frustrated with the situation they'll just assume you're gay and leave you.
>I'm in my 30s now, was a virgin until 27.
How do you lose your virginity once you're in your late 20s? Seems almost impossible for any woman to give you a pass for the inexperience. Was it with a prostitute?
I was always the shy friendly manlet, hoping my actions would make a girl fall for me. Too pussy to ask them out, etc. People always telling me I look good and would be a great bf, but none of them would date me or knew anyone else who would.
One time I was on a dating app and saw an exchange student 2 years younger with an open relationship and she was also a sex coach. So I literally sent a message "please take my virginity" and she actually responded. Couldn't feel much through the condom though. Getting kissed/hugged/caressed and feeling boobs after all those years far outweighed the sex experience. I kinda still felt a virgin after that. Not experiencing intimacy really does damage a person imo.
Fun fact: I've had 5 hookups in total and after the 18yo, a 37yo single mom from the Philippines was the tightest I've had. As soon as she'd get on top and rode me, I couldn't last a minute.
Second fun fact: None of the women I've been with minded my lack of experience. 2 actually got off on teaching me because they were about 5 years older than me. Knowing how inexperienced I was, they also let me have at it without a condom. I never actually came inside a woman though. Either because they weren't on birth control or the condom made it impossible to cum.
So it was like winning the lottery. Congrats. I hope I make it one day too, but I won't hold my breath.
Not him but I lost it at 29 and with a normal person not a sex coach or some shit. Talked with her on hinge and all I did was act like I've had sex before all the way until she was in my bed. At that point it's a bit awkward for them to leave after realizing you're obviously bad at sex, but that was irrelevant to me as my goal was simply to know what pussy felt like.
Basically try and larp as a non virgin as hard as you can.
>Basically try and larp as a non virgin as hard as you can.
Hasn't been working out for me greatly. But I suppose there isn't much else I can do. fml
How am I supposed to get a gf as an afab troony?
Because I want a gf as well
You're probably going to need to be a dragon/unicorn and couple hunt. If you're only attracted to women as an afab ftm, you're playing on extreme difficulty, good luck!
I've had sex thousands of times over the last 18 years (mid 30s here) but only like 4 or 5 of them with a condom. They fricking suck and it's some kind of mental block for me that totally kills the mood. Luckily most girls (in the west) are on birth control and don't really care if you don't use a condom. In my experience, Asian girls like those in Japan are not on the pill as often but I've never had too much issue persuading them to frick raw anyway.
>Most men are afraid of cumming too fast, but imagine fricking a girl to 2 orgasms and you can't cum. Women will always blame themselves and think you're not attracted to them.
So fricking true, man. A couple of times I've actually been inside some chick, lasting for ages wanting to get off but can't. She goes "maybe I'm not your type". lol what? I've been hard and inside you for like 40 minutes, pretty sure this time it's a me issue but whatever.
>lol what? I've been hard and inside you for like 40 minutes
Exactly this. A short while ago I had a girl over at my place for a week. She was visiting the country. It had been 2 years since I did anything with a girl, so pretty touch starved.
>first night we start kissing etc on the couch
>slowly move to the bedroom to continue
>eventually had to put on a condom because she wasn't on birth control
>spend half an hour fricking her and she's loving it
>missionary so my arms are tired at this point
>realize I'm not even close to orgasm
>eventually pull out
>she asks if I came
>tell her no and that it's probably not happening but it was great and I feel so relaxed
Next thing I know she grabbed her underwear and got out of bed. When I asked what she was doing she said "I'll sleep on the couch because I don't think you want me". I literally had to convince her to stay in the bed to sleep.
She just got off her period so it was pretty safe and we did pull out the rest of the week. Only twice was I able to get off from fricking her though. Thankfully she was 2 years older than me and once we had an adult conversation, she understood why I couldn't cum.
To be honest the 18yo was a lottery ticket, because she slid in my dm's and initiated the whole thing. She was an angel, but due to the age gap it didn't last longer than a month. No fight thankfully, we both understood the situation.
After my experience I was glad I never paid a ton of money for a prostitute. The only reason I might recommend going to one is to realize how mediocre sex feels compared to how you imagine it in your head.
I had to google afab. Unfortunately I think hairy men with a vegana are the least popular fetish. I haven't heard of women scissoring with a ftm.
>The only reason I might recommend going to one is to realize how mediocre sex feels compared to how you imagine it in your head
I'm under no illusion that sex with a prostitute would feel similar to sex with somebody who finds you attractive and craves it as well, be it a hookup or a gf. The only reason I would go with the prostitute route would be to get rid of things related to inexperience, like being nervous next to a naked woman, cumming too quickly or not being able to cum at all due to nervousness, hands shaking and getting sweaty, etc. I would treat it as a form of self improvement on the emotional and physiological front. Losing these quirks would go a long way in making me appear more desirable. But I'm still hoping that things will turn out okay. I just rationally know that my life is not heading in that direction.
Yes like I said, you can do it so you know what it's like (platonic) and maybe it'll take edge off interacting with girls for you. I just promised myself I'd never pay for sex/porn and so far managed to hold that up. It's almost the opposite effect where I question if I could ever have a successful relationship if I can't cum from piv sex.
>I blame society teaching them that men are always down to frick and come
True. As with most dating things, the double standard is insane. If a woman can't cum from piv sex and needs a vibrator or whatever to get off, people will jump at the chance of defending her. "she says she's enjoying it so why are you questioning your performance" "don't be so insecure" "don't put pressure on her to cum or it'll never happen". When the roles are reversed, something is wrong with the man or he's not attracted to you or he's gay.
I'd say you have much much higher odds of getting a cute lesbian gf while you're a tomboy, than if you go trans.
Got it. They're one percent of the population so looking is going to be hard af.
Well straight women who don't like dick are one in a million, so 1% is relatively good odds by comparison.
You'd probably be better off with dating apps that give filters to other girls that are looking for girls. Or join a lesbian dinner club or something idk.
I'm sorry man. When I got past 25 I felt like it was over for me too. And yeah the older you get the harder it'll be to find a woman who doesn't have kids or STDs or insane standards or other reasons they're single.. Everyone deserves affection but it seems nobody gives a frick when men are suffering by themselves.
As I said, one of the tightest pussies I've experienced was an asian single mom of two. She only used a vibrating toy when jerking off though, no penetration. Maybe that somehow got her back to factory settings over time.
she might be using that trick when they conciously clinch their pussy I mean you can literallly tell if she is doing it.
My first ex gf use to do it sincerely feels different that an actual tight pussy, a tight pussy is better.
I know what you mean but I'm pretty sure she didn't. First time we had sex she immediately climbed on top of me to ride me and as I said I could barely last a minute. When I told her to stop because I was about to cum, she sat down all the way on my dick. Almost filled her up at that point, but thankfully she got off just in time.
When I was able to get hard again half an hour later we did some missionary and that was fine. Rode me again to finish me off that second time. I would've noticed if she was flexing her pussy during those times.
>I literally had to convince her to stay in the bed to sleep.
Lmao it's amazing the kind of shit girls will invent in their heads despite immediate prior evidence to the contrary. I blame society teaching them that men are always down to frick and come so they probably think there's something wrong with themselves if their man can't do it.
So I'm better off detransing? That's fine.
Unless she has a medical issue, your hand is tighter.
>tfw no vaginismus gf to outshine ol' grippy
If I've learned anything from this thread, it's that I'm an extremely under-experienced and depressed pseudo adult
>t. level 37 khhv spergtarded fugly manlet wizard
There is no version of reality where I have sex with someone who isn't paid and preforming
it depends if she have had children or she uses toys to frick herself daily.
It really feels like a cavern there is no other way to describe it.
the idea that pussies loosen with use is a myth. some girls just have bigger veganal cavities. another factor is that girls loosen up when they are aroused, so if she's loose, she's horny for you.
I have a slightly different mindset and experience from having had sex with a lot of girls young and old.
I love loose pussy. For those here who said it feels like a cavern, there is still part of her pussy that you're touching with your wiener it's not like fricking air, and there's something soo mentally stimulating about a loose pussy.. you've know she's taken something bigger so I pound her out then take my wiener out and spread her pussy. I love looking at loose gaping pussy
Must be such a relief when the panties come off and you're presented with such a beautiful pussy. Nothing worse than a hot girl with a roastie to spoil it.
It really depends on the girl. My first girlfriend was this mid looking girl of Indonesian/chinese descent. But this girl was a nympho, and I loved the sex we had. She was always so into it. Always so wet. Always tight and perfect.
Compared that to my 9/10 white wife, who was a virgin when I met her. I love her to death, but I swear my dick and her pussy just aren't compatible. She has a super low libido, sex hurts her most the time, she's "shallow" so I'm always hitting her cervix and it hurts her like hell. She's never wet so I have to use lube or my spit, and I have to reapply during sex. Sex can never last most than 15mins or else she's going to get pelvic floor pains. And you'd think she'd be tight but no.
It is what it is, and you can't have everything.
tl;dr it depends on the girl.
They say it's a meme that Asian girls are tighter, but I've read a lot of testimonies on here of guys claiming they've never had better pussy than from an Asian.
I haven't slept with many girls, but she was far and away the best lay I've had. We'd frick twice a day. Hot sweaty making out creampie sex. Was her pussy better because she was a nympho and her pussy craved my wiener? Or was it better because she was a smallish asian girl? Hard to say. Maybe a bit of both.
I guess this is the equivalent to women thinking about that guy with the perfect dick that fricked them so good, and isn't their current partner.
It makes sense that veganas on the inside are as different as dick sizes. Unfortunately you never hear the claim that a pussy is too big, just that a dick is too small. All the responsibility on the man as usual.
wtf a baby comes out of that thing???