What's the appeal of women? Can't you just get rid of any sexual urges with your right hand? If you can refuel your car for free, why would you instead choose the gas that requires far more time, money, and energy that's only maybe slightly better? This is a serious post I'm autistic. It honestly baffles me, like they drive men insane when they act like whiny toddlers. What's the appeal?
Relieving sexual urges through masturbation is like replacing human touch with hugging a pillow.
I've been touched by women before in a sexual way (they came up to me). Felt like something was really wrong, like I needed to get away from them immediately. I could sense the kind of insanity I would be subject to if I continued letting them touch me and I hoped out.
>I've been touched by women before in a sexual way (they came up to me)
That sounds like rape.
Sexual urges, have to release
Human touch doesn't do anything tho.
Dunno how you guys managed to all have this collective belief in touch starvation when it doesn't exist.
Anon, are you schizoid?
>Anon, are you schizoid?
Nope, autism spectrum level 1.
Plus, don't schizoids care about praise and compliments and stuff?
I'm largely unaffected. Sure, it's nice to know that what I'm doing is working, but I don't have emotions about it for literally months like real men do.
No, schizoid is literally indifferent to praise. You might be mixing it up with avpd.
Avoid. Basically an unwilling schizoid. Women are worth nothing
you're definitely schizoid.
>Human touch doesn't do anything tho.
Demonstrably, empirically, provably false. You need to shut the frick up when you don't know what you're talking about. Babies that don't get constantly touched turn out psycho every time. People who cuddle romantic partners every night have sleep with significantly less cardiovascular stress. Tech companies invest millions into research for robotic haptics because if a machine applies pressure to you in a way that feels uncanny and not like appropriate human touch you instantly feel anxious and alert.
Companionship.
Sex is better than fapping.
They're pretty.
Society will respect you.
Continuing your genealogy if that's something you care about.
>Companionship
What companionship? They mostly seem to just try to control you and your space. Constantly making you do shit and shaming you.
>Sex is better than fapping
idk. I've had it a few times and it was ok. Fapping was pretty equal though.
>They're pretty
So?
>Society will respect you
I don't care about society.
>Continuing your genealogy if that's something you care about.
Never had an urge to do so.
Not really, I went to a club once because my friends were asking me to go.
i think you might just need to wait for the right woman. you shouldnt be dating someone unless you love them and want to be around them. seems obvious, but loads of people hold lust over companionship.
or youre just asexual or something. nothing wrong with it, as long as youre not a dick about it.
You were touched without being asked. If you hit it off with a cute woman, and she loves you and is loyal to you, and then touches you, you will feel feelings you never felt before, and that is when you'll become a man.
Responsibilities makes a man. 40 year old loner homosexuals are not men, however much they think they are
>Companionship.
Good if you get it but rare.
>Sex is better than fapping
Yes if with companionship, no otherwise.
>They're pretty.
False
>Society will respect you
False, society is indifferent.
>Continuing your genealogy if that's something you care about.
That's the real shit right there, can't deny that one.
t. almost got married, got lots of married friends:
>Companionship.
Relevant if you have a family. Having a spouse brings good companionship if you're surrounded by others who do the same. The goal is to build a positive community for your children and tribe. If you're alone, companionship becomes "friend", argument becomes for having a friend and that signals a pathetic life
Companionship: important if you're part of a bigger family or tribe who do the same, for posterity
>Sex is better than fapping.
Making love is better than fapping. Sex and no love is laborious masturbation
>They're pretty.
Yes
>Society will respect you.
Again, only if part of larger family or tribe that values it posterity
>Continuing your genealogy if that's something you care about.
Yes
So the appeal is purely for posterity. Otherwise, you're far better off jerking off. There is nothing special about women aside from their beauty, which fades fast.
Why didn't you get married?
>If only it were as easy to banish hunger by rubbing my belly
Welcome back, Diogenes.
I jacked 6 times today without porn, when I have sex the lust goes away after one or two ejaculations
Maybe you have less libido
Feels good being wanted, desired, loved.
When they love you enough, they'll carry your children on their womb.
When you are old, and you had learnt that life is meaningless, having reproduced and taking care of your offspring will prevent you from killing yourself.
Hope this helps.
I don't understand either.
I think normalgays don't have the ability we do to realise that free easy stuff is less stressful than unreliable grindy stuff.
So even if they can see the words "It's easier to not care about 3d sex", their brain dropped the clutch and is stuck in neutral, can't actually get around to cognitively processing those words and changing what they get horny about.
Then, because natural selection selects for more babies, normalgays' default sexuality is to care about baby making 3d sex.
Being worshiped by a female it's the closest you will get to being godlike.
Sorry.
I used to make a girl just as beautiful as her and more educated (doctor) act like that with me until I gave her the ick after which she began treating me like garbage, likely because she cringes for ever admiring me
I've been here for the past 6 months to cope. I didn't do anything wrong, I just didn't live up to her fantasy for 1 minute
I don't know how to move on from her. I never really wanted her, even, it's just the loss that hurts
Where is this from? I miss her so much guys
Found the source. Cuter in the gif and the message itportrays
Why would i jerk off when someone can do it for me?
their only appeal is their bawdtiness and debauchery
people want real women for the raunchiness of the sex, nothing else . women will do any sex act and you dont have to commit at all in any substantial way. if men had to commit they would just jack off. no one would put up with women if it werent for the sex acts and debauchery
Japanese girls are cute
How old are you? Being alone in your 20s is ok i guess, especially if you have friends, but you will slowly get more and more miserable, you will probably have a nice day by the age of 40 or 50 and if not you will die a slow, lonely, miserable death if you don't have a wife and children, the only purpose in life.
I'm 36 and no gf, I feel just fine.
I've never felt the loneliness emotion before.
Everyone's going to die horribly, people with a shitty wife and children are no exception.
How is having a wife and children more of a purpose than anything else?
Everyone is going to be killed by andromeda crashing into the milky way in 3 billion years.
Our sun is going to expand and engulf the whole earth in 5 billion years.
What's the point in sacrificing yourself?
Animals in nature have only one purpose, it is to find a mate and reproduce, as is the case for humans, you are out of touch with nature and will never experience true happiness. Sure you can live you life and think you feel just fine, but deep inside you don't.
Animals don't have purpose, that's a human concept
>What's the appeal of women?
There isn't much these days.
Women are just commodity holes now.
no
they cute
there are millions just like that anon.
That doesn't mean what you think
Your woman is your prize for doing well in life, you flaunt your woman to dominate other men.
>Remember all the times you were out with couple'd friends? They take pride in dominating you.
Which is why I, as a single guy who just turned 31, take every opportunity I can to belittle couples. My friends and I go out, I am flirting with many girls and trying to set up my single friends with girls, I am making constant rude remarks, I even flirt with my friends' gfs/wives. I'm the loudest in karaoke bars and dueting with girls I've never met, bringing strangers into our group pictures as well-known laugh material, jockeying for free drinks, I play the same domination game they play but in a way they never thought possible. It is all above board and no one talks down to me, no one tries to set me up, because they know that I could have my pick of the litter if I wanted. My closest friend just asked me recently "do you not want love?" because he knows I could have it on a silver platter, he's seen for himself some girls begging me for sex, the stories are all well-known and witnessed.
I have met hundreds of women due to my career, I can count on one hand the amount that actually caught my attention, they are the ones who saw through my whirlwind and directly called it out, called to me as a person. In this domination game I could never respect someone who let themselves be dominated, be it friends or women, and I am looking for a partner in crime not a partner in tranquility. I am not disrespectful, just playful, I keep my opinions to myself.
I don't keep a woman as a prize, I could never claim to succeed on the typical measures, I live my own life and society can only ever tolerate me, and with that I don't expect anyone here to read this post
Narcissism is truly a disease
There's no purpose really. I really think people put up with women because perhaps they "feel" that a woman will somehow add something positive to their lives (companionship, validation, etc) or they just want to have sex. Outside of sex I see nothing a woman can provide in any domain that a male friend or yourself can't provide. Perhaps the one sole exception is if you really want to start a family and have children but you're still going to have to put up with a lot of bullshit. No thanks, I'd rather dedicate my life to personal pursuits and goals and seek pleasure in that manner. See all the nagging, b***hing and moaning women out their through is just not worth it to me.
Most marriages end in divorce, and in the end 90% of the time the man ends up regretting ever being with that person in the first place. I think romance bullshit has just been shoved in our face so often that people think it's something that they need to have in their lives even though the reality of it is far more grim.
There were some things I liked about being in relationships when I was younger, but being schizoid and having to constantly return emotional support/validation was very difficult and most often suffocating. At the time I thought it was just depression that made me want to be alone all the time, but it was that I was so drained being in relationships after a while trying to satisfy their (ex-gfs) expectations/demands. They ultimately ended things with me (and cheated) because I almost never initiated anything with them, which made them question whether or not I was even attracted to them. I never understood the appeal of women myself. I only got into relationships the very few times in my life because I thought it was something I was supposed to do. Otherwise, I'd always just coast through life passively and aloof and it never bothered me. I just always preferred being alone and away from the noise and people. If I never got into another relationship for the rest of my life, I wouldn't care. I don't miss cuddling and spooning. I don't even miss sex. It may be something that other people pursue and that's fine. I just enjoy my own company. People that don't know me just assume I have some gf and those that know I don't ask me why I don't have one. I just find it annoying. They just can't understand it. Meanwhile I have married friends complaining about their responsibilities. It just makes no logical sense to me.
Sometimes I think I'm like you, but no girl has ever demonstrated interest in me because I'm just not attractive, so I never had a gf. I'm 30, sometimes I feel like shit for being alone but I never truly feel the urge to chase women, and I don't know why.
It could be fear, but I don't think fear would be enough to stop me if I really wanted sex or a relationship. It's weird.
Do you jerk off and watch porn at all? I do.