What's the point of getting a gf if you can never show weakness to her and the second you cry in front of her she loses interest and abandons you? I heard countless stories of shit like this happening so it's really ironic how women complain about toxic masculinity when that's exactly what they want.
>inb4 but my gf isn't like that!
Your exception to the rule doesn't prove anything?
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They do want to stay with you, unless you're the one who broke off the relationship. You broke up the relationship
Why do you need a gf?
Women are the logical gender. A gf main motivation is to get someone to protect her from rapists. If you do a well enough job, she rewards you by passing down your genes. That's all. Just business.
So again, why do you need a gf? Sexual gratification? Emotional gratification? If you this additionally to a therapist, pay visit to a classy prostitute. If you pay them enough, they are willing to listen to any verbal diarrhoea you throw at them and if they like you enough may even give you uneducated advices and opinions, which you should forget fast.
As long as you pay them, they will frick little b***hes like you as well, no judgements. Just business.
>Women are the logical gender
LOL
I know it's hard, but it's the reddest pill you must swallow.
this
people don't get that men have much, much stronger emotions in all departments except empathy
>women
>empathy
biggest meme in existence
if you want to manipulate people you need to be empathic.
Knowing how the other feels is not a purely do-gooder skill most people mistake it for.
>if you want to manipulate people you need to be empathic.
>What are psychopaths
You morons just open your mouth and spout the dumbest shit ever. How do you take yourselves seriously?
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>Women are the logical gender
Lmao wtf, stopped reading after that
truth hurts, I know
Women are the pragmatic sex. Men are the romantic sex.
>Women are the logical gender. A gf main motivation is to get someone to protect her from rapists
ANd yet they love inviting rapfugees to europe
one of the biggest incel memes bro. even if a girl does do this good fricking riddance show her the door
99% of girls will lose interest if you cry in front of her, so this is shit advice unless you want to never keep a gf. Much better advice is to work on yourself until you're no longer an insecure crying little dipshit, then you won't have to worry about it. I'm in a 4 year relationship and my gf has never seen me cry. I already learned that lesson from my first relationship as an emotional teen.
Crying is healthy, try it sometime. I'm not saying burst into tears if you had a bad day at work, but frick if your gf of 4 years can't take you getting emotional over some serious life moments she's a shit partner and I'd question why I was even with her.
100% you should. Relationships are a team man, and if your woman is such a c**t she'll leave you for being vulnerable when shit really hits the fan, why would you want her anyway? There are good women out there despite NSFFW incel mentality.
She probably won't leave you just for crying, but she will surely lose respect for you.
That’s exactly it. No man here is crying about a woman that would dump you on the spot for crying. Men suffer because we know that even the best woman wouldn’t be able to help losing respect for her man in that situation. And then like an infested wound it would fester.
Crying requires context. If you cry because your dog just died she's not going to look down on you for it. If you cry because of trival things she's going to see you as the b***h you are. Context matters.
Bullshit, women will see you as weak even if you cry to death of a loved one
Yeah just telll a girl to frick off after trusting her for years
People are different op, I'm a big sensitive frick who cries at sad movies. Ever girl I've ever dated liked that about me
>Your exception to the rule doesn't prove anything?
Maybe not but your assumption doesn’t prove anything either. It’s just a shitty assumption, that you cookie cutter onto every person. It doesn’t mean it’s truthful in any way.
Your gf isn't your therapist. It's a different relationship than with a friend or your mom. Your gf is attracted to you because you're a strong male who can provide excitement, protection and resources. Moping and crying like a b***h is beta male behavior, and she will naturally like you less if you do that, as it's the opposite of what a female is programmed to sexually respond to. I know it sucks, but there's nothing we can do about it. It's natural human behavior. When she sees you being a b***h, her brain chemistry will respond the way it's designed to, and you'll lose your halo effect. Keep the whiny shit and insecurities to your mom and friends, or a therapist/psychologist. Girlfriends aren't there for that.
This is some incel-tier pseudoscience lmao
It's called common sense simp
>heard stories
Go outside and live it. Many people, including myself, have great girlfriends. When you find someone who loves you, she will actually WANT you to open up about your feelings and support you.
Talking about your feelings in a mature and masculine way and breaking down sobbing are two very different scenarios.
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for you
I'm a man. I cry in front of women. I have emotions and show weakness in front of women.
I have never had a problem finding partners. Women tend to gravitate towards me. Men find me intimidating for some unknown fricking reason to me.
It's about being true. Being you, people like that, even if it shows weakness some times.
No shit.
>doing something in a healthy adult way is better than doing something in an unhealthy, childish way.
The only girls who will leave you for showing vulnerability or affection are gonna be insecure wrecks looking for a "strong" man to solve their lives. Like any kind of person, there are women who will support you and comfort you when you feel down. It's okay to cry and it's okay to feel overwhelmed, the problem begins when you see other people as emotional tampons and that's a disgusting treat on any person ,man and women alike.
Again, the only girls who will have a problem with your feelings are the ones swallowing the sexist crap that men should adjust to their whims.
Except most women are like this
my boyfriend cries in front of me and i love him all the same. it doesn't make me lose interest, i'm not going to abandon him, and i comfort him or give him some space when it happens, whatever he prefers in the moment. if you live your life vicariously through the internet where people are going to dramatize, or better yet fabricate, stories for internet attention then you're going to get really misleading ideas of how love works.
How often? If a guy cries all the time thats an issue.
If you show weakness to other people, you are not strong enough to get a gf yet. Just get a little older and more life experience.
stop reading incel shit, it's a waste of time that'll program you to fail with [preferred gender]
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Biologically we don't want weak men, this isn't rocket science. Congratulations, you've discovered modern society is dysfunctional.
im sorry
Dude. Most women track and adjust their hormones through medication... This is an absolutely fricked concept from the perspective of a man, but perfectly "normal" for most women.
>Contraceptive use among women who were sexually active and not seeking pregnancy was lowest among 15–24-year-olds (83%) and highest among 25–34-year-olds (91%).
>https://www.fertstertreports.org/article/S2666-3341(20)30038-6/fulltext
Women are the spirit and passion of society, but they're actively and *purposefully* suppressing their emotions. That's why many of them think it's gay for a man to cry- they themselves are brainwashed to suck down ungodly amounts of medication to prevent those absolutely NORMAL and HUMAN emotions, and if YOU are crying, that means you aren't even strong enough to not cry while on your medication (even though you aren't on it- they don't consider that you aren't a drugged up zombie like they are, and that you have to deal with reality as a normal person).
I've dealt with so many stuck up women in my life that refuse to express any love or emotion. They hold it back and drug themselves out of it. The happy souls of my childhood, the flower-dress flirts who wore their hair long and smiled all the time and did cute things... are now mostly turned into overweight, repressive, cold shells of people. Even 15 years ago, they thought every conversation was an attempt on them- now, all it takes is random eye contact for them to start throwing up feints and obstacles. It's repulsive behavior, and definitely the easiest explanation for their unhappiness. Playing this stupid drug-filled game of "hard to get" even though they obsess constantly over how ugly they think they are.
"Natural" women- the few of them that exist- are caretakers not by societal design but by their own impetus. As an example: I once hung out with a girl who refused birth control (and was very vocal about it, that it "messed with her"). She passionately loved nature and animals, and I ended up scraping the shit out of my arm on a hike with her and a group. Not a deep cut, but drew blood from wrist to elbow. She immediately reached in her bag for her first aid kit (that she "always carries") and told me to "stop being such a tough guy" while she got antiseptic and bandages on it. The other women in the group just sat around and watched. I felt like a normal adult man around her, never having to purposely display my disinterest in her so she wouldn't act like an insane b***h, having normal conversations that aren't a measurement/mind game circus... We walked through Tokyo a few nights, just her and I. I will never forget those nights, it was the most normal I've ever felt with a woman, and I attribute it all to her refusal of birth control- statistically, one of LESS THAN 10% to do so at our age.
Her words against the pill, combined with her caring and comfortable nature, made me realize that maybe the pill is doing it. It is one of a few explanations for why women now act the way they do, when historically, women were mothers first and foremost, caretakers and cuddlers and criers and comforters. I myself refuse any medication, even pain/headache relief, on the same grounds. Mind-altering medication. It is such a simple concept, avoiding drugs, but here we are...
good post. people forget something like 90% of american women are on contraceptives (pre-menopause) and 75% are on ssri's and/or benzos by age 30. not to mention sleeping aides with major side effects like ambien etc. not to even mention the rampant use of weed these days which also affects grey matter in the brain and makes people more prone to depression/anxiety.
American women are drugged the frick out. contraceptives impair female ability to pair bond, respond to male emotion, and feel empathy (scientifically!). It also stunts their ability to choose partners - this is why the average American woman ends up divorcing her husband after she has kids and GETS OFF BIRTH CONTROL (54% of marriages fail in the USA, and the majority are within 5 years of having children).
women are 100% naturally empathetic and kind (to an extent) but ONLY when they aren't psychotropically drugged up with chemical substances which affect their emotional processing and awareness of reality on a daily basis.
I'm actually beta as can be but when I had a GF I was a dominant, insensitive butthole. It comes totally natural trust me.
like I never showed weakness once, never confessed myself. to the point it harmed the relationship. you really do it naturally. trust the process. man and woman is an eternal partner.
>I'm actually beta as can be
>I was a dominant, insensitive butthole
Checks out.
>What's the point of getting a gf if [nonsensical self-defeating incel rambling]?
This fricking shit again.
Every other thread is some zero-experience tard treating second-hand post-breakup venting from randos as the gospel of relationships.
>Your exception to the rule
Why in the fricking frick are you pretending to be an expert on the rules to a game YOU'VE NEVER PLAYED?
Why do you bother? I've told them the same stuff in countless threads for decades and they pull the same delusional ramblings as if they were broken records.
Couple times a year I get an itch to yell at the spazzes.
They have put relationships for the rest of us on easy mode.
Incels are morons that will never breed because they are their own worst enemy. I'm not complaining much though, makes it easier for the rest of us to find a girl
yeah happened to me. 2 weeks after i couldnt take the stress anymore and broke down for 20 minutes, she left
>the second you cry in front of her she loses interest and abandons you?
I went out drinking with a mate and his gf once (they were both 19) and he had a few drinks then cracked up and started crying about something (infact he also did it once before when he was drunk infront of his gf before she was his gf) and I don't think she changed her opinion of him, she still seems really into (maybe even kinda clingy) but she definitely didn't lose interest in him
been with my partner for 3 years now, we've cried in front of each other a good couple times and even last night, we ended up staying up until 3am or something talking about trauma. there were tears, admittedly. once you know youre in it for the long haul, you realize vulnerability is an option, and you slowly walk yourself into it over time. a good sign is if shes vulnerable first, though a decent test would be to put on a movie with a decent looking (not attractive!) male actor actively crying or otherwise being vulnerable. it tests her reaction to male vulnerability, and have a discussion based off that.