The words your looking for are called ‘high standards’, and usually it’s a good thing so long as the standards are based on generative and healthy things like virtue, principles, and discipline. But society today has it ass backwards so those things aren’t the base standard anymore.
This is why men also have shit standards too. It’s why they keep falling for mentally unhinged adulterers, or frequent prostitutes.
Why should we lower our standards to your level when there are plenty of men who do meet those standards? Also have you considered raising your qualifications? Why is it always women who must bend the knee to the patriarchy? It's 2024 it's time men started bending their knee to us for a change.
I swear to God begin a male is living hell on Earth. Then I remember I don't relase my anger and frustartions against small animals or the weak and live happy that I didn't born as a woman
This is a tough pill to swallow, but the real reason is that the majority of things women look into men has a direct or indirect impact on raising healthy children.
I wished my mother had higher standards, I probably would've ended less fricked up as right now.
There's more to loose as a woman, could be abused, divorced, night have to singly raise your kids. It's easy for women outside of a relationship maybe but inside a marriage especially with kids, it's a little more harsh the woman. It makes sense for a girl to want her long-term partner to live up to her ideals.
Most women's standards are pretty normal and attainable >physically fit, good hygiene, independent, dress well >provide for her, be somewhat funny, patient, protect her >don't run around on her, keep the relationship active
most of it is easy, the problem is that most dudes fall short of this standard because they're homosexuals, and the remaining dudes that can make the cut are like >"oh well i can get this midb***h so easily, frick her i'm just gonna go try getting with another chick or pump and dump"
and of course the more attractive the man is the more likely he is gonna do this. statistics show that the more attractive a male is the more likely he is to cheat on his wife, because he'll be able to easily meet said criteria for 99% of the women out there, because it's mostly the same across the board, and he'll search for a better chick because he knows he can do better and that's just biological wiring to get with the best mate.
Women's standards are not that high. Their /stated/ standards are high. They project a minimum tolerance much higher than their actual willingness to accept because it reinforces their sense of worth to demand high quality.
This is why you see women with shitty guys along various dimensions. Once they like a guy sufficiently for some reason or another, they are willing to settle for quite a bit.
Don't take this as license to slack. Attain the list on 's list, and you'll be in good shape to do the actual work of seducing, which is the real determinant of sexual success.
The answer is women aren't told no as often in life as men. It's really that simple. You can talk about other dating dynamics things like the imbalanced supply/demand but what it really boils down to is that everyone coddles and placates women in situations they would never tolerate from a man. That breeds entitlement, then you have girls who expect to date 9s as a 4.
Grim to imagine mothering an ugly baby. The minimum is the minimum amount of ugly they’d want their baby to be, but that ends up being a high standard itself since they’re evolutionarily designed to seek out the best genes for their kids
It's pretty paradoxical because women supposedly have these unrealistically high standards when it comes to dating, but then the same women will turn around and date the scummiest men imaginable.
All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.
tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to
The words your looking for are called ‘high standards’, and usually it’s a good thing so long as the standards are based on generative and healthy things like virtue, principles, and discipline. But society today has it ass backwards so those things aren’t the base standard anymore.
This is why men also have shit standards too. It’s why they keep falling for mentally unhinged adulterers, or frequent prostitutes.
Why should we lower our standards to your level when there are plenty of men who do meet those standards? Also have you considered raising your qualifications? Why is it always women who must bend the knee to the patriarchy? It's 2024 it's time men started bending their knee to us for a change.
There's too many buzzwords in quick succession. This is bait
Because they have been raised to believe they deserve everything they want, just for existing.
I swear to God begin a male is living hell on Earth. Then I remember I don't relase my anger and frustartions against small animals or the weak and live happy that I didn't born as a woman
This seems like bait, since there's no way you'd find this post unironically on NSFFW
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Only 5% of the male population meet women's standards.
That's plenty of men though, since women don't need sex nearly as often as men.
It's actually way less, and still insane
https://igotstandardsbro.com/
Well, my standards are mostly low but hyperspecific.
Same difference, I guess.
This is a tough pill to swallow, but the real reason is that the majority of things women look into men has a direct or indirect impact on raising healthy children.
I wished my mother had higher standards, I probably would've ended less fricked up as right now.
This & Same
Figuring this out alone was not a fun quick adventure.
Why shouldn't they be?
Because they can. As opposed to men.
There's more to loose as a woman, could be abused, divorced, night have to singly raise your kids. It's easy for women outside of a relationship maybe but inside a marriage especially with kids, it's a little more harsh the woman. It makes sense for a girl to want her long-term partner to live up to her ideals.
Most women's standards are pretty normal and attainable
>physically fit, good hygiene, independent, dress well
>provide for her, be somewhat funny, patient, protect her
>don't run around on her, keep the relationship active
most of it is easy, the problem is that most dudes fall short of this standard because they're homosexuals, and the remaining dudes that can make the cut are like
>"oh well i can get this midb***h so easily, frick her i'm just gonna go try getting with another chick or pump and dump"
and of course the more attractive the man is the more likely he is gonna do this. statistics show that the more attractive a male is the more likely he is to cheat on his wife, because he'll be able to easily meet said criteria for 99% of the women out there, because it's mostly the same across the board, and he'll search for a better chick because he knows he can do better and that's just biological wiring to get with the best mate.
Real answer not here, so I'll provide:
Women's standards are not that high. Their /stated/ standards are high. They project a minimum tolerance much higher than their actual willingness to accept because it reinforces their sense of worth to demand high quality.
This is why you see women with shitty guys along various dimensions. Once they like a guy sufficiently for some reason or another, they are willing to settle for quite a bit.
Don't take this as license to slack. Attain the list on 's list, and you'll be in good shape to do the actual work of seducing, which is the real determinant of sexual success.
> they are willing to settle
This isn't true.
https://www.morganstanley.com/ideas/womens-impact-on-the-economy
>Most women's standards are pretty normal and attainable
This is untrue.
The answer is women aren't told no as often in life as men. It's really that simple. You can talk about other dating dynamics things like the imbalanced supply/demand but what it really boils down to is that everyone coddles and placates women in situations they would never tolerate from a man. That breeds entitlement, then you have girls who expect to date 9s as a 4.
Grim to imagine mothering an ugly baby. The minimum is the minimum amount of ugly they’d want their baby to be, but that ends up being a high standard itself since they’re evolutionarily designed to seek out the best genes for their kids
>Grim to imagine mothering an ugly baby
My mom did it and here I am
>and here I am
With a grim existence. Sorry anon.
Is fine. Most of it is my fault, is what I choose
They are the ones who get stuck with the baby.
>> why don't women want an overweight, unemployed loser who still lives with his mum?
Kek. You dumb b***h
ageing cat ladies can't be choosers anon.
They clearly can. Not even guys from NSFFW can get them.
It's pretty paradoxical because women supposedly have these unrealistically high standards when it comes to dating, but then the same women will turn around and date the scummiest men imaginable.
Only the perfect key can unlock a lock
All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.
tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to