I waited an entire year and change for sex from the woman who would become my wife. Since she was a virgin, I felt it would be worth it. I was right. I had lost my virginity to a chick who had half a dozen dudes before me, and it almost put me off sex. Sex with my wife, still over 20 years later, is fricking amazing. Don't settle for less, folks. No hymen, no diamond.
>omg seven sentences is a blog post >way too much for my zoomer attention span
Aw. >also you're lying and living with mommy
Wrong. I'm guessing you're just hostile because you prefer the delusion that nobody here could be successful in a relationship, as a justification for your own loneliness. Sorry, but it's not the case. Honed autism is a powerful tool.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
>seething
lol
lmao
sure buddy, defend yourself harder on a Siberian snow shoveling enthusiast board where every post is true and we're all just mad because tfw no gf
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
I notice you're changing your IP with every post. Total shock that you're a demoralization Black person.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Its an angry roastie. Always is. Same typing style of >nuh uh! Nuh uh! HAVE SEX.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
>we're all just mad because tfw no gf
I am 40 and happily divorced, project moar troon chud.
Worse; he changes IPs/IDs with each post, which means he's VPN hopping, which means he's here to demoralize. I still come here partly to spite homosexuals like him.
I'm curious what the homosexuals on reddit are telling him. Surely they can't expect him to go the rest of his life without sex, right? He didn't sign up for that.
No , r/deadbedroom , they are aware of how fricked it is. Being asexually is not inherently wrong, but surprising someone with it and expecting them to go along with it is. Sexual intimacy is a legitimate need in a lot of relationships and he should have know what he was signing up for to make that choice for himself
A lot of people are asexual these days, mostly due to SSRIs and trauma, either way she is in the wrong here.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
And from being worked to death as wage slaves indoors doing menial sedentary bullshit for money that can barely even afford shelter and fake food that ruins your health
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
No, she's just not attracted to him now that she won his money. She wants a clean divorce so she can take her winnings and find some other rube to scam
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
It isn’t going to happen though. She never fulfilled her wifely obligations.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Courts don't care about that you dipshit
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
They do
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
No, they do not
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
They do in less cases than they don't. Depends entirely on the judge. Family court is complete bullshit.
In a lot of states they still have laws on the books that a marriage can be annulled if there is no consummation.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
And now go look at the last time those laws were successfully used in court
Do you not understand how the legal system works? Ever heard of common law?
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
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dO yOu nOt uNdErStAnD hOw tHe lEgAl sYsTeM wOrKs? eVeR hEaRd oF cOmMoN lAw?
JuSt mAyBe, MaYbE JuSt mAyBe dO BeTtEr cHuD, tHaT Is pRoBlEmAtIc, HeRe iS WhY AnD LeTs uNpAcK ThIs mEsS.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Lmao go try to get a marriage annuled with no alimony or settlement because some gold digger roastie doesn't put out. Let me know how that goes
No one is saying that, what I’m saying is a lot of people require sexual intimacy in a relationship. It’s not about entitlement it’s about needs being met. I’m talking about compatibility here, not ownership. A person whose love language includes sex will not be happy with an asexual. It will cause resentment and guilt in both directions. Why would you choose to be with someone you are bot compatible with?
Thats why these disclosures should happy early , so you can make an informed choice of if it’s something your willing to accept, if not , move on.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
sex isn't a need, you're an incel
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Maybe sex isn’t a physical need, but in a relationship everyone has different requirements. A lot of people need the intimacy of sex to feel close to their partner, alot of people don’t. You can’t just generalize everyone. A sexless relationship would be a deal breaker for me. I’d simply just not be in one. I wouldn’t be upset that someone didn’t want that in a relationship, I’d just realize that it is not the relationship I want. We would not be compatible. What’s the point of being in a relationship if it’s not making both parties happy?
I mean that’s sorta my point. Everyone has different needs IN A RELATIONSHIP.
Your needs and wants don’t align with mine, so we are not compatible. Neither of us is wrong for feeling the way we do, but a relationship between us would not be healthy and mutually fulfilling.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Nah, like objectively, it makes you fricking pathetic if you ever whine about "buuuut babe sex is a NEED, I NEED it please baby"
you fricking loser
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Why whine about it ? Just don’t be in a relationship with someone you’re not sexually compatible with if sex is important to you in a relationship. You’re missing the whole point.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
I'm not an incel nor am I liberal, but people who say sex is a need is fricking pathetic.
Imagine being this moronic. Yes it is a need.
Physical intimacy releases chemicals that reduce inflammation which helps extend your life for starters.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
[...]
Do you sound like this when guys dump you because you wont put out?
It's about being strong enough to survive on your own without being desperate for pussy all of the time, you weak willed fricks. If pussy is a "need," then that means you guys can't go twenty minutes without having a woman being at your side. You're at the whims of some b***h telling you what to do because you can't fricking control yourselves. It's pathetic and it makes you weak.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
>whine
Not even a 100 years ago, men could just take what they need if a b***h was this unhinged.
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>Surely they can't expect him to go the rest of his life without sex, right?
I suppose you can just get a hobby, or not be a sex addict , or not be a slave to your animistic desires and so on and so on,
do you know where I'm going with this?
I hate BPD/NPD c**ts so much it is unreal. She is making suffer on purpose. I remember frigid BPN/NPD c**t would get upset if a girl sat next to me in class and yet did not want to sit next to me in class.
Fricking divorce her and stay "friends". Good God!
Blah blah blah spice it up, blah blah blah r/cuckold, blah blah blah its not just about sex, blah blah blah current year
Lewl. Banged my big tittied preggo wife senseless today. Normies win again, like we always do. You're all internet freaks.
>Normies win again, like we always do. You're all internet freaks.
Get that baby tested, Achmed
Obvious bait but I bet reddit will eat it up.
You think NSFFW falls for bait? Try a website full of morons who can downvote anyone who calls out the bait.
He wanted a woman 9 years junior and he didn’t have the charisma or the wallet to find one in working condition. It’s like buying a car for cheap just because the AC isn’t working.
Isn’t a sexless marriage good grounds for divorce? He should just record her frank discussions about how she finds him repulsive and that he will never have the prospects of fathering children because sex is gross. No fricking judge in this world will force him to give up even a cent.
If you are a women and your husband is the one not putting out them yes, it is a form of emotional abuse.
If you are man and your wife isn't putting out because she settled for you and now has you (and your pay cheque) locked down then no, he is just being a misogynistic man child. Legal proceedings relating to divorce or family matters might as well be a firing squad if you are a man
i would rather have an asexual wife who takes care of her body than a sexual wife who lets herself go and gains 100 lbs after marriage, i've seen it happen to well-meaning men and it's tragic, they marry a cute girl and she becomes a fat hog posting moronic conspiracy shit on Facebook
>11yr age gap >went 9 months without sex and somehow never confronted her about it or asserted dominance >decided to MARRY her without ever once having fricked her >"i assumed she was waiting until marriage" = "im such a weak gaygit i was scared to say anything" >"she's like a best friend" lmao get a dog or some homies if you want a friend. A wife is supposed to be a wife, not a pal >and finally, instead of taking control and telling his wife its time to frick and she can take dick or gtfo, he sits on his computer and writes to r*ddit. Because he's so weak he needs r*dditors for support
I hope this is a fake post. I dont wanna imagine how sad and pathetic you have to be to get bullied like this from a girl 11yrs longer than you.
She will be an absolute horn dog in ten years when he won't care nearly as much about sex. Then she will get pissed at him and go frick Tyrone and claim it's his fault.
Have to have a financial vehicle not tied to your name in any way which you can transfer your assets to (whether its a trusted person or just a stash of gold bricks)
Then you lose your job and always make less than her so she has to pay YOU alimony
Gotta let your partner know up front what your deal is. >"I have a mean libido so if you don't want to do sex, we're not going to work."
If you're an adult this should be a simple thing to outline. The whole >"She always turned me down for sex"
Raises a lot of red flags and he should have pressed the issue then. However, the lady should have been more forthcoming since it was obvious the dude wanted some and she didn't feel like giving it. Whether she's actually asexual or not isn't the point, this more pressing issue is both parties not communicating properly.
I've been dating a girl for 7 months now and she still hasn't had sex with me, and evades the subject whenever I mention it.
As of late she also started to ghost me and ignore my suggestions of going out, to add insult to injury.
I passed on great opportunities with other women for her and she drops my unceremoniously without even giving me her pussy.
Explain to her sex is important to you , and that even tho your willing to wait, it is something you eventually expect in a relationship. If she disagrees, stop wasting both your time and move on.
I already consider this to be over tbh, looking for other women rn. But I'm still jaded that I let her lead me on for this long. If only I was experienced enough to be able to predict this. Oh well
Good on you, I stayed in a sexless relationship for way too long. Well almost sexless, we tried to work on it, therapy all that, in the end either they were having sex because I wanted it and it was miserable, or we weren’t having sex because they didn’t want it and it was miserable. Otherwise we were great partners and are still good friends. We are both in other relationships these days ( theirs newer , mine more long term) with partners that suit us, and we are both much happier and better off
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Yeah seems I'm gonna get in a similar situation. Shame because she's the prettiest girl I've dated
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
And you pulled her and are now more experienced and in a better position to pull the next.
You’re also more aware of what you want and don’t want any in your next relationship.
You said you turned down others along the way. You can afford to be choosey here. Don’t settle and keep your options open till you do find something that seems right, then pursue that. No one expects exclusivity off the jump these days. Just be clear and honest about initially
>Explain
if you ever feel the need to explain anything to a woman
you have already lost
and you have been played for the fool that you are
women understand everything better than you
if you're not getting what you need from her
it's because she's FRICKING WITH YOU, moron
not because she needs anything "explained"
idiot
But I also think men should be in a relationship that meets their needs (sexually or otherwise) Communication is everything. If you are communicating or explaining your needs and not having them met or at least coming to a mutual compromise. You are not being played for the fool, you are the fool.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
>explaining your needs
again
women understand your needs
they just don't want to meet them
they know all about men's sex drive
and men's need for sex in order to feel loved and appreciated
if she's denying you that
then that's her message to yo u
if you have to >explain your needs
for a >mutual compromise
you've already lost
if she's not willing to frick you, just look for another who is
Explain to her sex is important to you , and that even tho your willing to wait, it is something you eventually expect in a relationship. If she disagrees, stop wasting both your time and move on.
Just drop the prostitute and find someone else to frick their brains out. If she knows you're a quality man she will approach you first, cut ties with her cold turkey just don't reply to her unless she says something first and always reply with fewer words than her.
This is why the order of commitment from you goes like this:
1: you meet: shes a date and you're not obligated to give her any form of commitment beyond talking/texting and meeting up.
2: any sort of physical escalation that isn't actual P in V sex: you still owe her notjing, especially if you're also giving her equal amounts of pleasure back
3: you have sexual relations: if she asks for a commitment and you agree, this is the typical point where monogamy is required to keep her and avoid accusations of cheating, etc.
Before sex, you owe her ZERO commitment. You should never ever ever pass on other options for a girl who isnt putting out.
You can CHOOSE to commit if she's a virigin or whatever, that's your choice. But no sex requires zero commitment from you and you're a simp and a fool if you offer it wholeheartedly otherwise.
sometimes I feel bad that I've only fricked about 35 girls and haven't had a threesome yet, and then I read things like this. is it really this bad for men? like the dudes I see on the street haven't had sex for 9 months?
its not the number of girls, but the quality of sex that counts. i only slept with one girl before my wife and it was shit anyway. my wife was a virgin and we've been together for 15 years. in a long term relationship you gain some trust and confidence in bed. i would never try to have a one night stand or something like this because the things i do to my wife could put me in jail if some random girl dont like being roughed up and complains to the cops
>and haven't had a threesome yet
trust me it's not as exciting at you see on TV. and more work than one wants to deal with. it's better to frick 2 chicks in a row one after another than to deal with two chicks at the same time.
just have a threesome with prostitutes >no worries about 'satisfying' them >no worries about bad blood afterwards >no worries about 'rape' or 'abuse' accusations
Almost all stories like this one are fake. Reddit is full of this kind of masturbatory fantasy. And make no mistake, the guy who wrote this was jerking off while writing it. The ultimate consummation is getting a thread about your story on X, from a big account. That's worth at least an evening of gooning.
Redditors are moronic. >no discussion about why no sex, just assumed demure traditional purity
Lmao >not willing to annul the marriage immediately even after being misled for the entire relationship
Lmao >wife is his best friend
Lmao >will never cheat no matter what
Lmao >will not get divorced
Lmao
I really hope reddit is as pozzed and glowie infiltrated as we are and these are all bait posts.
What the frick was he doing with her for 9 months if not getting to know her? I see this too often. People getting married, then being surprised when they learn something fundamental about the person they married. People just like go out to dinner, have sex, watch netflix, and never fricking KNOW each other. That's marriage, sharing everything, literally.
$5 says she's been getting it on the side. Women don't just become asexual. They just cut you off and gaslight you into paying for their "therapy" which is getting railed by their "therapist". The sooner men wake up and realize how horrible women are, the better off we'll be as a civilization. Maybe it's too late already.
Had the "Privilege" of knowing a few female Ace's. Every single one got raped as a kid and now is terrified of sex from that traumatic experience. Talk about broken goods.
what about marital rape laws?
if you can't get consent from your wife, you're not entitled to sex
if you insist or demand, that's abuse
if you, Marx forbid, force her into sex, that's marital rape
>Consent is irrelevant.
lol, someone hasn't updated himself on martial law changes these past 30+ years
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Someone hasn’t checked polak TFR
Polish prostitutes are the biggest mudsharks and childless c**ts in EU
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
what does that have to do with marital rape laws, memeflaggot?
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
cuckold fantasy reddit thread.
You mfs bored in kurwa land. >childless c**t working for traveling prostitute agency with 80,000 other polak prostitutes >polak on pol >Muh laws.
Kek
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
There's been no change in annulments. They're just rare because the fricking tends to come before marriage. As a dirty continental you might not know how English law works, but annulment isn't "judge says you need to frick" it's "it's up to you but no frick, no marriage".
Imagine this nightmare scenario: An incel gets a girlfriend. They could make a fantastic thriller about this, since it can only end in the woman going insane and commiting suicide. The movie would start off as a group of incels who totally hate women (trust me) until a girl ends up hanging out with them, and of course since they are all thirsty they turn on each other like, "I never knew ye!".
Age gap relationships are cringe right? I have friends in real life who keep trying to convince me that age gap relationships aren't weird and cringe. If you are dating someone plus or minus 10 years to your own age, it just seems inherently cringe.
This is a slide thread so saging the frick out of it. That said, I don't know why this shit is so hard for betacucks. >Will you sleep with me? >no >Will you bear my children? >no/maybe if we surrogate >Then you aren't a wife but a friend. >I have no need to marry my friends. >I'm filing for an annulment (sounds like they just married).
Bro should've seen the red flags. If a girl doesn't want to have sex with me by the 2nd date I just ghost her and move on.
I waited an entire year and change for sex from the woman who would become my wife. Since she was a virgin, I felt it would be worth it. I was right. I had lost my virginity to a chick who had half a dozen dudes before me, and it almost put me off sex. Sex with my wife, still over 20 years later, is fricking amazing. Don't settle for less, folks. No hymen, no diamond.
Nice blogpost buddy. Now time to sign off. Mommy says dinner’s on
>omg seven sentences is a blog post
>way too much for my zoomer attention span
Aw.
>also you're lying and living with mommy
Wrong. I'm guessing you're just hostile because you prefer the delusion that nobody here could be successful in a relationship, as a justification for your own loneliness. Sorry, but it's not the case. Honed autism is a powerful tool.
>seething
lol
lmao
sure buddy, defend yourself harder on a Siberian snow shoveling enthusiast board where every post is true and we're all just mad because tfw no gf
I notice you're changing your IP with every post. Total shock that you're a demoralization Black person.
Its an angry roastie. Always is. Same typing style of
>nuh uh! Nuh uh! HAVE SEX.
>we're all just mad because tfw no gf
I am 40 and happily divorced, project moar troon chud.
1 post shithead
Worse; he changes IPs/IDs with each post, which means he's VPN hopping, which means he's here to demoralize. I still come here partly to spite homosexuals like him.
>No hymen, no diamond.
Haven't heard that for a long time lol
Based
israelite
imagine thinking any of these homosexual stories on reddit arent just some homosexuals larp.
2nd date? If she's not sucking my dick in 30min I'm out of there
Yup. And everyone else at the Cheesecake Factory better deal with it.
Based
Even more based. King shit even
Based.
Giga based. Just be careful of STDs man.
>Dating
>Not going straight for marriage
Lmao lol jajajajajajaja
I'm curious what the homosexuals on reddit are telling him. Surely they can't expect him to go the rest of his life without sex, right? He didn't sign up for that.
No , r/deadbedroom , they are aware of how fricked it is. Being asexually is not inherently wrong, but surprising someone with it and expecting them to go along with it is. Sexual intimacy is a legitimate need in a lot of relationships and he should have know what he was signing up for to make that choice for himself
She's not a sexual. She want him to divorce and to take half his shit then move on to the next guy to scam
She is not having sex with HIM.
Reading comprehension?
I think what the steppe nomad is trying to say is she's fricking other guys, just not him.
A lot of people are asexual these days, mostly due to SSRIs and trauma, either way she is in the wrong here.
And from being worked to death as wage slaves indoors doing menial sedentary bullshit for money that can barely even afford shelter and fake food that ruins your health
No, she's just not attracted to him now that she won his money. She wants a clean divorce so she can take her winnings and find some other rube to scam
It isn’t going to happen though. She never fulfilled her wifely obligations.
Courts don't care about that you dipshit
They do
No, they do not
They do in less cases than they don't. Depends entirely on the judge. Family court is complete bullshit.
In a lot of states they still have laws on the books that a marriage can be annulled if there is no consummation.
And now go look at the last time those laws were successfully used in court
Do you not understand how the legal system works? Ever heard of common law?
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dO yOu nOt uNdErStAnD hOw tHe lEgAl sYsTeM wOrKs? eVeR hEaRd oF cOmMoN lAw?
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Lmao go try to get a marriage annuled with no alimony or settlement because some gold digger roastie doesn't put out. Let me know how that goes
>Sexual intimacy is a legitimate need
incel talk, you aren't entitled to a woman's body chud
No one is saying that, what I’m saying is a lot of people require sexual intimacy in a relationship. It’s not about entitlement it’s about needs being met. I’m talking about compatibility here, not ownership. A person whose love language includes sex will not be happy with an asexual. It will cause resentment and guilt in both directions. Why would you choose to be with someone you are bot compatible with?
Thats why these disclosures should happy early , so you can make an informed choice of if it’s something your willing to accept, if not , move on.
sex isn't a need, you're an incel
Maybe sex isn’t a physical need, but in a relationship everyone has different requirements. A lot of people need the intimacy of sex to feel close to their partner, alot of people don’t. You can’t just generalize everyone. A sexless relationship would be a deal breaker for me. I’d simply just not be in one. I wouldn’t be upset that someone didn’t want that in a relationship, I’d just realize that it is not the relationship I want. We would not be compatible. What’s the point of being in a relationship if it’s not making both parties happy?
Legit AI post
I'm not an incel nor am I liberal, but people who say sex is a need is fricking pathetic.
I mean that’s sorta my point. Everyone has different needs IN A RELATIONSHIP.
Your needs and wants don’t align with mine, so we are not compatible. Neither of us is wrong for feeling the way we do, but a relationship between us would not be healthy and mutually fulfilling.
Nah, like objectively, it makes you fricking pathetic if you ever whine about "buuuut babe sex is a NEED, I NEED it please baby"
you fricking loser
Why whine about it ? Just don’t be in a relationship with someone you’re not sexually compatible with if sex is important to you in a relationship. You’re missing the whole point.
Imagine being this moronic. Yes it is a need.
Physical intimacy releases chemicals that reduce inflammation which helps extend your life for starters.
It's about being strong enough to survive on your own without being desperate for pussy all of the time, you weak willed fricks. If pussy is a "need," then that means you guys can't go twenty minutes without having a woman being at your side. You're at the whims of some b***h telling you what to do because you can't fricking control yourselves. It's pathetic and it makes you weak.
>whine
Not even a 100 years ago, men could just take what they need if a b***h was this unhinged.
Do you sound like this when guys dump you because you wont put out?
uh akschually sweatykins,
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>Surely they can't expect him to go the rest of his life without sex, right?
I suppose you can just get a hobby, or not be a sex addict , or not be a slave to your animistic desires and so on and so on,
do you know where I'm going with this?
Bumping a slide thread and completely missing the point at the same time. True moronation.
im pointing out the hypocrasy of pushing anti porn shit and then turning around and not being to be held by your own standards.
What are you even talking about moron.
Yeah the usual value-signalling bullshit.
>just put up with it goyim, otherwise you’re decadent! Hyeh hyeh hyeh hyeh!
Just annul the marriage and dump her ass on the street corner. Let her "real" friends come save her.
I hate BPD/NPD c**ts so much it is unreal. She is making suffer on purpose. I remember frigid BPN/NPD c**t would get upset if a girl sat next to me in class and yet did not want to sit next to me in class.
Fricking divorce her and stay "friends". Good God!
Blah blah blah spice it up, blah blah blah r/cuckold, blah blah blah its not just about sex, blah blah blah current year
>Normies win again, like we always do. You're all internet freaks.
Get that baby tested, Achmed
Guy just received a loisence to frick whatever else he wishes
Who's gonna tell him?
that he married a troony? lol, he'll find out soon enough
Obvious bait but I bet reddit will eat it up.
You think NSFFW falls for bait? Try a website full of morons who can downvote anyone who calls out the bait.
Probably bait, but you're fooling yourself if you think this type of thing has never happened before.
>obvious bait
This is clown world, homie. there’s no such thing as bait. Only reality
What a cuck, how can someone be so pathe...
>reddit
Ah
As a redditor, I find your comment problematic. Downvoted.
DIVEST, DISTRIBUTE, AND DIVORCE
He wanted a woman 9 years junior and he didn’t have the charisma or the wallet to find one in working condition. It’s like buying a car for cheap just because the AC isn’t working.
>r3ddit
>sweaty
rape her until she likes it
/thread
Marriage is life long consent to sex with your spouse. She consented in front of God and everyone else.
Fine, I'll take sex where you're sweaty.
He should get an annulment
Women aren't entitled to protection.
Security
Then what’s that pussy created for ?
Reason # 1,905,761 not to get married.
Isn’t a sexless marriage good grounds for divorce? He should just record her frank discussions about how she finds him repulsive and that he will never have the prospects of fathering children because sex is gross. No fricking judge in this world will force him to give up even a cent.
I mean it’s not a real marriage since it was never consummated nor did he sample the wares at any point.
If you are a women and your husband is the one not putting out them yes, it is a form of emotional abuse.
If you are man and your wife isn't putting out because she settled for you and now has you (and your pay cheque) locked down then no, he is just being a misogynistic man child. Legal proceedings relating to divorce or family matters might as well be a firing squad if you are a man
there is a reason why you must consummate your marriage for it to be official.
if you find a good enough israelitelolyer yes. as my paps always told me "how much justice do you want to pay for?" is the slogan of american law
>divorce
It's not even a marriage yet. Textbook case for annulment, it might be rare but that's just because 99.99% of women are prostitutes.
i would rather have an asexual wife who takes care of her body than a sexual wife who lets herself go and gains 100 lbs after marriage, i've seen it happen to well-meaning men and it's tragic, they marry a cute girl and she becomes a fat hog posting moronic conspiracy shit on Facebook
I forced my disgusting slampig ex wife to lose weight and as soon as she began resembling a human being, she picked a giant fight and took off.
you get an annulment at that point
screencap, no effort, "make less interesting"
(You)
>I still absolutely love her
lol no he doesn't, this weirdo just doesn't want to be alone. fricking IS love
She commited fraud, execute her.
>you aren't entitled to love and affection.
Lewl. Banged my big tittied preggo wife senseless today. Normies win again, like we always do. You're all internet freaks.
>Banged my big tittied preggo wife senseless
Is that safe?
>11yr age gap
>went 9 months without sex and somehow never confronted her about it or asserted dominance
>decided to MARRY her without ever once having fricked her
>"i assumed she was waiting until marriage" = "im such a weak gaygit i was scared to say anything"
>"she's like a best friend" lmao get a dog or some homies if you want a friend. A wife is supposed to be a wife, not a pal
>and finally, instead of taking control and telling his wife its time to frick and she can take dick or gtfo, he sits on his computer and writes to r*ddit. Because he's so weak he needs r*dditors for support
I hope this is a fake post. I dont wanna imagine how sad and pathetic you have to be to get bullied like this from a girl 11yrs longer than you.
She will be an absolute horn dog in ten years when he won't care nearly as much about sex. Then she will get pissed at him and go frick Tyrone and claim it's his fault.
go back
>just date a zoomer when you're 40, they said
>sell everything
>divorce wife
>don't pay alimony
>don't elaborate at all
not my problem
Have to have a financial vehicle not tied to your name in any way which you can transfer your assets to (whether its a trusted person or just a stash of gold bricks)
Then you lose your job and always make less than her so she has to pay YOU alimony
>marrying a woman you've never had sex with
>marrying someone you haven't even been with for a full year
Pretty much the standard human condition up until the early 1900s and it worked out well.
Gotta let your partner know up front what your deal is.
>"I have a mean libido so if you don't want to do sex, we're not going to work."
If you're an adult this should be a simple thing to outline. The whole
>"She always turned me down for sex"
Raises a lot of red flags and he should have pressed the issue then. However, the lady should have been more forthcoming since it was obvious the dude wanted some and she didn't feel like giving it. Whether she's actually asexual or not isn't the point, this more pressing issue is both parties not communicating properly.
The most pressing issue is that the woman scammed him
There were plenty of clues for the situation being lucky. This guy sounds like a moron.
I’d just start jerkin off freely around the house.
We either have sex or I’m beating off whenever and where ever I like.
as an asexual we must commit the horrid ac to sex in order to further procreate the asexual agenda for future generations.
Literally you do not. Just don’t. Find another asexual and live a happy existence. It’s not everyone’s burden to repopulate the earth.
wrong israelite it the only meaning to life to pass on ones genes and one's experiences
I've been dating a girl for 7 months now and she still hasn't had sex with me, and evades the subject whenever I mention it.
As of late she also started to ghost me and ignore my suggestions of going out, to add insult to injury.
I passed on great opportunities with other women for her and she drops my unceremoniously without even giving me her pussy.
Explain to her sex is important to you , and that even tho your willing to wait, it is something you eventually expect in a relationship. If she disagrees, stop wasting both your time and move on.
I already consider this to be over tbh, looking for other women rn. But I'm still jaded that I let her lead me on for this long. If only I was experienced enough to be able to predict this. Oh well
Good on you, I stayed in a sexless relationship for way too long. Well almost sexless, we tried to work on it, therapy all that, in the end either they were having sex because I wanted it and it was miserable, or we weren’t having sex because they didn’t want it and it was miserable. Otherwise we were great partners and are still good friends. We are both in other relationships these days ( theirs newer , mine more long term) with partners that suit us, and we are both much happier and better off
Yeah seems I'm gonna get in a similar situation. Shame because she's the prettiest girl I've dated
And you pulled her and are now more experienced and in a better position to pull the next.
You’re also more aware of what you want and don’t want any in your next relationship.
You said you turned down others along the way. You can afford to be choosey here. Don’t settle and keep your options open till you do find something that seems right, then pursue that. No one expects exclusivity off the jump these days. Just be clear and honest about initially
>Explain
if you ever feel the need to explain anything to a woman
you have already lost
and you have been played for the fool that you are
women understand everything better than you
if you're not getting what you need from her
it's because she's FRICKING WITH YOU, moron
not because she needs anything "explained"
idiot
> women understand everything better than you
Glad you agree
But I also think men should be in a relationship that meets their needs (sexually or otherwise) Communication is everything. If you are communicating or explaining your needs and not having them met or at least coming to a mutual compromise. You are not being played for the fool, you are the fool.
>explaining your needs
again
women understand your needs
they just don't want to meet them
they know all about men's sex drive
and men's need for sex in order to feel loved and appreciated
if she's denying you that
then that's her message to yo u
if you have to
>explain your needs
for a
>mutual compromise
you've already lost
if she's not willing to frick you, just look for another who is
Don't listen to
Just drop the prostitute and find someone else to frick their brains out. If she knows you're a quality man she will approach you first, cut ties with her cold turkey just don't reply to her unless she says something first and always reply with fewer words than her.
Haha youve been feeding her and now shes found someone else to pay for her food
You literally have some of the most beautiful women on this planet in you country.
Just start fricking other women. She is an idiot.
This is why the order of commitment from you goes like this:
1: you meet: shes a date and you're not obligated to give her any form of commitment beyond talking/texting and meeting up.
2: any sort of physical escalation that isn't actual P in V sex: you still owe her notjing, especially if you're also giving her equal amounts of pleasure back
3: you have sexual relations: if she asks for a commitment and you agree, this is the typical point where monogamy is required to keep her and avoid accusations of cheating, etc.
Before sex, you owe her ZERO commitment. You should never ever ever pass on other options for a girl who isnt putting out.
You can CHOOSE to commit if she's a virigin or whatever, that's your choice. But no sex requires zero commitment from you and you're a simp and a fool if you offer it wholeheartedly otherwise.
Dump the fricking c**t: no intimacy and she is reduced you communication with her. Find another girl.
>can't even spell "sweety" right
You yids will burn in hell for your grammatical errors.
meanwhile she fricks Black folk left and right as soon as he leaves the house. Surprise surprise
Of what use is she then? The fact that this cuck is still seeking advice from reddshit instead of a divorce attorney says everything I need to know.
Women won't even give you sex before divorce raping you anymore.
sometimes I feel bad that I've only fricked about 35 girls and haven't had a threesome yet, and then I read things like this. is it really this bad for men? like the dudes I see on the street haven't had sex for 9 months?
Dude I haven't had sex in my entire life
That was bait
why not?
its not the number of girls, but the quality of sex that counts. i only slept with one girl before my wife and it was shit anyway. my wife was a virgin and we've been together for 15 years. in a long term relationship you gain some trust and confidence in bed. i would never try to have a one night stand or something like this because the things i do to my wife could put me in jail if some random girl dont like being roughed up and complains to the cops
This anon knows. I will never go back to casual sex, even if my wife dies.
yeah man, my wife is still in her postpartum recovery so no PIV yet. cant wait to bang her hard again
Congrats on the new baby, fren.
>and haven't had a threesome yet
trust me it's not as exciting at you see on TV. and more work than one wants to deal with. it's better to frick 2 chicks in a row one after another than to deal with two chicks at the same time.
just have a threesome with prostitutes
>no worries about 'satisfying' them
>no worries about bad blood afterwards
>no worries about 'rape' or 'abuse' accusations
Gay. Threesomes where theybworship your wiener are the only real form of debaucherous sex. Sex one on one with a chick just doesnt hit the same.
A marriage must be consummated in order to be valid
Brahh: That is CLASSIC grounds for divorce!
She duped you into a sexless marriage!
Get out and go find a proper wife. FFS do it!
Just rape her. Geez.
If it flies, floats or fricks, rent it. Never buy it.
Imagine getting married in current year
Fricking buyer beware. It’s over for dumb men with no instinct and not dumping loads into your girl before wedding her.
What an absolute plonk. Sexless moron is now gonna get divorced raped for nothing. NOTHING.
>Jesus, lack of Christ, is this moron. No instinct in him. Also, he waited for her? Ah ah ha ha ha ha ah ah.
no sex, no marriage. He can get an annulment no problem.
Black person Black person
I would cut my dick off put on a dress and start reading to kids in the library
Almost all stories like this one are fake. Reddit is full of this kind of masturbatory fantasy. And make no mistake, the guy who wrote this was jerking off while writing it. The ultimate consummation is getting a thread about your story on X, from a big account. That's worth at least an evening of gooning.
Gas yourself for lurking r eddit Black person
a) creating writing seminar
b) just get what you want. it's that fricking simple...
You get get an annulment for not consummating the marriage.
This guy is a tard though so I hope he doesn't
is marriage consummation law still a thing? just cut your losses and move on
Why do you homosexuals keep making these threads?
The marriage can be annulled because they didn’t consummate the marriage.
Despite what you may think that’s still law.
No fricky, no marriage.
these reddit threads are rage bait. theyre not even real,you morons.
Redditors are moronic.
>no discussion about why no sex, just assumed demure traditional purity
Lmao
>not willing to annul the marriage immediately even after being misled for the entire relationship
Lmao
>wife is his best friend
Lmao
>will never cheat no matter what
Lmao
>will not get divorced
Lmao
I really hope reddit is as pozzed and glowie infiltrated as we are and these are all bait posts.
> t. reddit creative writing exercises getting faker and faker
Same thing ran through my mind a few times while engaged. We both were homeschooled Christian virgins so sex didn't come up as topic often.
She’s not Asexual for chad
>recently married
>wife denies wife duty
not filing for divorce. geez
so based, she just wants to be a mom, not a fricktoy
she dun mind if he has some hoes on the side, perfect situation for Chad, terrible situation for Beta Simp Bob
AI women are real women
What the frick was he doing with her for 9 months if not getting to know her? I see this too often. People getting married, then being surprised when they learn something fundamental about the person they married. People just like go out to dinner, have sex, watch netflix, and never fricking KNOW each other. That's marriage, sharing everything, literally.
>just get a wife 10 years younger than you bro!
Nobody said to get a 28 year old hag bro.
$5 says she's been getting it on the side. Women don't just become asexual. They just cut you off and gaslight you into paying for their "therapy" which is getting railed by their "therapist". The sooner men wake up and realize how horrible women are, the better off we'll be as a civilization. Maybe it's too late already.
get an annulment.
Had the "Privilege" of knowing a few female Ace's. Every single one got raped as a kid and now is terrified of sex from that traumatic experience. Talk about broken goods.
Annulment. If she won't consummate the marriage, get it annulled. No divorce needed, it's like it never existed.
what about marital rape laws?
if you can't get consent from your wife, you're not entitled to sex
if you insist or demand, that's abuse
if you, Marx forbid, force her into sex, that's marital rape
What about them? No consummation, no marriage. Consent is irrelevant.
>Consent is irrelevant.
lol, someone hasn't updated himself on martial law changes these past 30+ years
Someone hasn’t checked polak TFR
Polish prostitutes are the biggest mudsharks and childless c**ts in EU
what does that have to do with marital rape laws, memeflaggot?
You mfs bored in kurwa land.
>childless c**t working for traveling prostitute agency with 80,000 other polak prostitutes
>polak on pol
>Muh laws.
Kek
There's been no change in annulments. They're just rare because the fricking tends to come before marriage. As a dirty continental you might not know how English law works, but annulment isn't "judge says you need to frick" it's "it's up to you but no frick, no marriage".
>You aren't entitled to sex, sweaty
This is obvious garbage tier bait.
Also for unsuspected readers, your wife is not your best friend, not by a mile, she's the b***h you make children with.
What is sweaty?
You are sweaty
It's pretty hot outside, so yeah. I'm pretty sweaty rn
Neither are you, troony.
cuckold fantasy reddit thread.
Hire c**ts aren’t entitled to man’s protection
>28 year old
TopTunaMan cant get something that smells like fish and is mad, news at 11.
This man is mentally moronic.
How do you go from
>this woman refuses to have sex with me
to
>ok maybe shes saving it for marriage
at 39.
Wonder what they look like
>fake
>gay (just like OP)
>herbs
b***h unironically needs rape correction.
Imagine this nightmare scenario: An incel gets a girlfriend. They could make a fantastic thriller about this, since it can only end in the woman going insane and commiting suicide. The movie would start off as a group of incels who totally hate women (trust me) until a girl ends up hanging out with them, and of course since they are all thirsty they turn on each other like, "I never knew ye!".
Thank God every day that incels are single.
Based wife. Live like brother and sister for Christ. Filhos da Mente de Cristo.
Age gap relationships are cringe right? I have friends in real life who keep trying to convince me that age gap relationships aren't weird and cringe. If you are dating someone plus or minus 10 years to your own age, it just seems inherently cringe.
I'M WRITING KEK. The streetshitte jannies are now correcting shit?
frick the israelites
My fetish is "asexual" women. I would just use them for the purpose of impregnation and that's it.
This is a slide thread so saging the frick out of it. That said, I don't know why this shit is so hard for betacucks.
>Will you sleep with me?
>no
>Will you bear my children?
>no/maybe if we surrogate
>Then you aren't a wife but a friend.
>I have no need to marry my friends.
>I'm filing for an annulment (sounds like they just married).